Heather125 wrote:
Oh and the "because it looks like daddy's penis" creeps me out. How often do you plan on your son seeing his father's penis? . Are they going to compare? The FATHER has the odd penis, not the son. The son's is natural, the father's is the one that was altered for no reason. So if you stop it at your son, when he grows up and has kids, there will be no conflict.


  



THIS! I didn't want to say anything because I didn't grow up with either a father or brother, so I fully admit to this being an issue I know nothing about, but I was really confused on just how often little boys are looking at their father's penis in other households. smiley: roll

And why is 'different' considered bad to begin with? There will be many ways in which your child could be physically different than you.
Using 'But I want them to look the same as me/their other parent.' as an argument for this is so strange to me. (And vaguely narcissistic, to be honest.)