Sorry to bump this. I just got home from work. Welol the mortgage is solely in his name and he can afford it on his own. Work is probably going to be really awkward though. We mostly work with guys and they all think we're going to get married and stuff. They get on his case all the time that he needs to propose. I used to want that but now I'm glad he hasn't asked yet because it would be a million times harder to break up then. I hate break up cause I feel like I basically threw away the last 2 years of my life. But then I remind myself that its not fair to either one of us to stay in the relationship if I'm not happy. Better to find out before we're married and have kids.