Angelpopstar7 wrote:
I'm going through that issue right now. My boyfriend and I bought a house together back in May. Thankfully the mortgage is in his name only. He turned into like a different person once we got the house. It's kind of hard to explain. And all of his annoying habits which only bothered me a little bit before, bug me a lot since we're literally together all the time now (we work together too ). I have issues on talking about my feelings so back in July, I wrote him a letter about what I was feeling. He wrote a letter back and basically made all this promises which he has yet to uphold. Then in the middle of August, I decided that I had enough and was going to move out. I had my dad come over with a trailer and everything and at the last minute I just couldn't do that to him because I thought it would be a financial burden on him. I again reiterated the stuff I had put in the letter before that was bothering me (constantly telling lies, etc) and figured I'd give him one last chance to change. 5 weeks later and nothing has changed. I've decided I'm breaking up with him next Friday. I couldn't do it this weekend because we work. I just can't handle being this unhappy for any longer.

I think I would definitely live with someone now before marrying them. Even with dating for over a year before we got the house, there was still so much I learned about him after living together. Stuff that I know I can't live the rest of my life standing.
I'm sorry But at least you know that there are things that you can't live with for the rest of your life. Just hold on to those things, even when it gets tough.

What are you going to do about the working situation? And the mortgage?