BellaSole wrote:
Yes. He became crazy. Cops were involved I have to move out in one day on my birthday. I wouldn't move in with some one unless you have been with them for years lol

I'm glad I'm not the only one

I don't normally post anything personal here, but yeah. I lived with someone for almost six years (I knew him and was very close to him before we ever dated, so I felt pretty confident in who he was as a person). I won't get into specifics about the relationship, etc., but yeah. We had been having serious issues for nearly a year, and when I finally did tell him I no longer wanted to live with him, he went cuckoo for cocoa puffs. Our lease was ending and we had to return a form to our leasing office declaring either we were or were not going to renew our lease, no later than 30 days before the end of our lease. I didn't expect him to take it well, so I literally waited as long as I could to tell him, and at first, he acted mad. Then, he seemed sad but acted like he knew I wasn't happy and that I deserved to be and so on. But he literally spent the next month doing everything he could to sabotage my efforts to get our things separated, packed, and moved out. He would refuse to help go through things, promise that he was going to do something on such and such day and instead, he would just not come home for days. And on the weekend we had to move out, he took $250 cash from me to go get our moving truck, and just...never came back. Abandoned everything he owned and all. Later, he admitted that he essentially had a nervous breakdown. He said he left, realized it really was over and he "couldn't handle it". Just couldn't go back and face that his own actions and behavior had gotten us to that place.

I wouldn't let it detract me from living with someone else in the future, though. Obviously, most sane, rational adults wouldn't handle things the way he did (which is just the tip of the iceberg of why I knew I had to leave him). I wouldn't hold his faults against someone else.