i wouldn't date any of my friends' recent bfs. however, if it's been like 10+ yrs since they dated or someone they weren't serious about, then i don't think it's that big of a deal.

i also wouldn't go after someone they're planning to pursue. unless i'm madly in love with the guy, i don't see why i can't find someone else. there are so many guys out there, why go after the same one my friend is interested in?  of course, if a long time has gone by without my friend making a move, then the guy should be fair game.  out of courtesy, though, i would probably give her a heads up that i'm interested in the guy.

Edited By: franknbeans82 07/13/2011 11:11 AM. Edited 1 times.