It happened to me with my HS BFF. We had a falling out over her wedding (she got married to someone right out of HS because she was looking to be taken care of). I didn't get it and refused to be a bridesmaid in her wedding.

I tried to reconnect but she held a grudge. She was at our last reunion and we said Hi but nothing more. She's still married so maybe I was wrong but I know she didn't love him (at least at the time). She was passionately in love with someone else but gave it all up for the safe life.

Kind of like the Notebook in reverse.


It didn't work out for me but maybe your friend will be different. People grow and some have hearts large enough to forgive. It's worth a shot but be prepared for rejection. You'll never know unless you try.