jeepchic20 wrote:
StellaXOXOXO wrote:
NancyOttawa wrote:

The OP has already said that she has lost touch with her though and can't even remember her last name.
No, she lied to the guy about not remembering. smiley: laugh

No I don't know her married last name.  After the last time a few months ago when he and I Facebooked message (again the first thing he said to me - not Hi old classmate our 20th reunion is coming up - was, 'Do you know where Jane Doe is?") I searched for her for my own knowledge and I thought I found her. I saw a woman with her first and maiden name and another last name. I never got around to actually messaging her.

Highman - creepy factor # 1: He actually somehow found MY number and texted me. Not only that but the first text I got simply said "Do you still talk to Jane Doe?" Again no - "hey it's John Smith, how are you? Question for ya..." If you're going to pepper me for information at least talk to me first.

Creepy factor # 2: He is asking me way too many questions when twice I've told him straight up I HAVEN'T HEARD FROM HER SINCE 1999, I DON'T KNOW INFORMATION. SORRY. 

Creepy factor # 3:  I responded once with "I can't remember her married name." His response was "Relax u will when you do let me know."  I will not remember because we lost touch shortly after her marriage (I was overseas, she moved away) so I never knew her married name.

And Creepy factor #4: When we stopped texting for about 30 minutes, he texts me again and asks me if I remember now.  It's been 30 freakin' minutes.

I understand he's trying to find her obviously, but again totally creeping me out because I told you before I haven't talked to her yet you're questioning me again, and being kind of stalkerish about it.

It's a creepy problem Highman.



Hey Stella - Looks like I was correct.  smiley: tongue smiley: laugh