StellaXOXOXO wrote:
NancyOttawa wrote:
leesuh773 wrote:
Wth. Now you should get in touch with your old friend just to warn her about his ass

The OP has already said that she has lost touch with her though and can't even remember her last name.
No, she lied to the guy about not remembering. smiley: laugh

No I don't know her married last name.  After the last time a few months ago when he and I Facebooked message (again the first thing he said to me - not Hi old classmate our 20th reunion is coming up - was, 'Do you know where Jane Doe is?") I searched for her for my own knowledge and I thought I found her. I saw a woman with her first and maiden name and another last name. I never got around to actually messaging her.

Highman - creepy factor # 1: He actually somehow found MY number and texted me. Not only that but the first text I got simply said "Do you still talk to Jane Doe?" Again no - "hey it's John Smith, how are you? Question for ya..." If you're going to pepper me for information at least talk to me first.

Creepy factor # 2: He is asking me way too many questions when twice I've told him straight up I HAVEN'T HEARD FROM HER SINCE 1999, I DON'T KNOW INFORMATION. SORRY. 

Creepy factor # 3:  I responded once with "I can't remember her married name." His response was "Relax u will when you do let me know."  I will not remember because we lost touch shortly after her marriage (I was overseas, she moved away) so I never knew her married name.

And Creepy factor #4: When we stopped texting for about 30 minutes, he texts me again and asks me if I remember now.  It's been 30 freakin' minutes.

I understand he's trying to find her obviously, but again totally creeping me out because I told you before I haven't talked to her yet you're questioning me again, and being kind of stalkerish about it.

It's a creepy problem Highman.