I never expected anything from anyone.  It was natural for each one including my MOH to step in and do certain things because they LOVED me.  It wasn't even a thought for any of us.  We have known each other since elementary school and we have all done the same for each of us who has been married before.  It's an honor to stand up in support for each other as well as make their who wedding experience a great one.  It's not a foreign concept.  I chose each one of them because they are my best friends and my sisters and we are all best friends.  I feel blessed to have each of them and my wedding was a fairytale and most in part because of their love and support for my husband and I.  Some are taking the "tasks" to an extreme because it's just a part of the whole experience for us and it was natural for them. I have great friends I must say. smiley: wink