I'm a bridesmaid for one of my bffs and we were making plans for the shower/thinking of decoration ideas/making invitations the other day. I've been pretty removed from the whole wedding planning stuff so that was my first time really being part of it. All I was sitting there thinking was "OMG I do NOT want to be doing this crap for my own wedding or have other people doing it!!!" smiley: rollIt was kinda freaking me out. There's so much stupid planning that goes into this crap imo and I don't see the point smiley: nerd I had already decided that I'd probably want a destination wedding and now I've decided that I don't want a bridal shower or anything like that. Plus I'll be going super non-traditional with everything.

I don't see the problem with only have 1 alcoholic beverage. We're either having 1 or possibly none.