imnotsayingitright wrote:
Wow. I had no idea 100% of people would say leave it alone. Is it really that weird that I have an issue with it?

I guess I'd just like to know that my friends are people whose principles regarding this sort of thing align with my own.
I understand that, but I think he did nothing to YOU to make you think he is racist, so you should probably just let it be. If later down the line he does things that make you question whether or not he is racist, then you can bring it to his attention. You are basically basing all this off a rumor. For all you know Mary could be jealous that you have grown close to Jack and she wants to try and get you two to separate a little. If everyone in the world confronted people based off of what they hear from other people, things would be chaotic. That's actually a big reason fights do start between friends so often.