GloriaW wrote:

That your "friend" initially agreed to drop you off, but later backed out, suggests an unreliable nature to put it diplomaticly. That she did this on the occasion of your birthday weekend, and considering that you had been able to secure a considerable discount for her and the others, also suggests an ungrateful spirit. I wonder if up to this point she had been a quality friend or has she ever displayed any inkling of this type of nature before.

   I do agree with this.

If she initially said she'd take you home and then waits until the day of to tell you that she won't take you then that's really fucked up. What made her change her tune so suddenly?

I can understand her not wanting to drive 30 minutes out of her way, BUT if my friend was getting me a huge discount on a hotel room and it was her birthday, I would definitely do it for her.

Did you guys have some sort of disagreement about something else and maybe she's using this as a way to spite you because she's still angry?