Hooking up with another guy will not solve a thing. Been there done that, regret every second of it.

My 6 year relationship broke up in July. I had the hook up in August. My reasoning was that I needed to forget, I was hurt, and like Lo said - I just had to do something other than cry. I needed to feel wanted after what I went through. I cried harder after realizing what I did.

I gave myself a month to just sob my face off and then I decided to do something I absolutely hated to get my mind off things. I joined the gym - you can't cry in a public place! Fast forward... I am now working for said gym as PT! Moral of the story - focus your negative energy elsewhere, give yourself time to heal, and who knows what you will end up loving