ipodconga wrote:
now I'm in this city by myself but I don't want to leave because I'll feel like a failure after leaving a situation I really enjoyed because I thought I was making a necessary career move.


Are you applying anyplace in Chicago in addition to where you are now? I mean, if you landed a nice job in Chicago, you'd be back to your friends, the clubs & restaurants, etc.

Also, are you doing anything to make friends in your new city? Maybe look at MeetUp.com or find a local community organization that interests you? You will probably meet some great people who become good friends!
No. So far I've only applied to jobs in my current city. I really want to try to make it work.

I have joined a few organizations. I joined most as they were having holiday specials to meet people and because there were discounts for groups that had annual fees. I start going to the meeting in January for one particular group. Luckily, this group has a volunteering aspect. I want to do something to help someone else because it'll not only make me feel better about myself and give me a purpose, but I also believe in karma and believe that if I help others someone will help me. I know that's selfish, but it's honestly how I feel the universe works. The truth is that this isn't an awful city, but I'm just lonely. I'm hoping the meeting I have on the 6th will truly give me the inspiration and motivation I need to stay.