KSS1079 wrote:
Ali110 wrote:
KSS1079 wrote:
Well, what would happen at that point is that we'd have tables where people can stand and eat but I HATE that idea because I always hate going to weddings where they don't have enough tables and you have to fight for seating.  The problem is that my family alone is almost 100 people so I'm going to have to cut family members



I'm not being rude when I say this, but honest.  If I were invited to wedding, and was asked to stand during the meal, I'd probably be kind of pissed about that...

I've been to SEVERAL weddings like that.  Maybe it's a southern thing, but a lot of people have receptions with less tables than the number of people they invite.  I hate the idea, which is why I'm trying to figure out if the "only 50% of the people you invite will actually come" is true or not.  Looks like it's not.

I was born up north, but live in the south, and I don't care, that's shitty and I'd be mad if I was invited and had to stand at the dinner.  I don't care where it is!