KSS1079 wrote:
Ali110 wrote:
KSS1079 wrote:
Let me clarify that the venue can hold almost 400 but only 175 for a seated dinner.  So if all 230 showed up, I'd still have space but everyone wouldn't have a seat at a table to eat and that's what I'm trying to avoid.
I'd be worried sending that many over in case they did RSVP for the dinner.  I mean, what if 200 RSVP?  Then you've got people that are going to be there that you know you cant seat...

Well, what would happen at that point is that we'd have tables where people can stand and eat but I HATE that idea because I always hate going to weddings where they don't have enough tables and you have to fight for seating.  The problem is that my family alone is almost 100 people so I'm going to have to cut family members



I'm not being rude when I say this, but honest.  If I were invited to wedding, and was asked to stand during the meal, I'd probably be kind of pissed about that...