It is insane how people who don't want children get treated as if they're abnormal or selfish. I'm sorry, but any decision around having children - whether it's to have or not to have - involves some selfish elements. What you personally want factors into either decision. I'd like them one day, but so what if other people don't?

I will never understand why anybody would want to pressure somebody who doesn't want children into having them. It's a dumb myth that people who have kids out of duty will all magically love them as if they'd always been wanted, and kids are not stupid. They pick up on that resentment.