She's back in the waiting area now. I sent my husband to her house with the kids. I don't really want to be here alone but it's too much to have the kids here, possibly for more than two hours. Ultimately I'm sure things will be okay but my dad's dad died during a heart cath. Granted he was in his 80s but it doesn't change that it scares me.

I've helped her look into Allsup, yankee. Her plan is to collect unemployment until she can get into subsidized housing (she applied a couple months ago so we're hoping the wait won't be much longer). Then she'll try to go back to work two days a week. Doing that she'll make under $1000/month and still be able to apply for disability. Then whenever that comes through she'll be able to quit completely. I worry about her working even super part time but she doesn't really have any other option. In any case, if she's employed in any capacity Allsup won't help her at all. You have to not have a job.