I'm not making excuses... lol he's the reason why I came on here and started the thread.
I'm answering the questions that people are asking. As far as I know he put about $1500 into car repairs and he also had to reinstate his insurance which was a fee of $900 because of previous early termination. The car that he was driving before, he was under his friend's insurance, and then he switched back to his and had to pay the cancellation fee. The rest, he's bought groceries, cell phone bills and it was my birthday 3 weeks ago and he did buy me a pretty good present. Like I said, I don't comb through his bills nor do I look into his bank account.

The ex boyfriend thing is a super complicated story that happened about a a year and a half ago. It really changed the way I saw my parents and caused a huge rift in our relationship. I was left feeling really upset after I found out they moved him in and still don't understand why they did it. But that's a huge story that I don't want to druge up because I'm still pretty hurt about it.