he had a car, and it was in working order until about a month or two ago. And it's even worse sometimes if I lend him my car because then I'm left with no way of getting anywhere. i live out in the suburbs of boston, in andover and there is no real transportation system here, and none to where he needs to get to work. As for driving, most of the time I have classes during the day at all different times, whereas he works a solid shift of 7 hours.

The whole living with me while the parents pay rent is a whole other issue. It's a long story but basically my last boyfriend, was an huge loser, and when we broke up my parents moved him into my house at home (while I was away at another school 2 hours away) without telling me. But that is a big can of worms that I don't want to open right now.