I know it comes off as me being co-dependent. I knew and accepted that when you come on a message board stating a problem and asking for advice. I wanted perspectives coming from people that were unbias to the situation (although it is my side of the story that i am telling).

I'm 22, he's 23.
I've been talking about it with him for the past hour or so and he hasn't once said i'm being unreasonable or flipped it on me. I think i may have made him feel guilty and stressed out but lets be honest, if he feels guilty that's because he knows he was doing something wrong. I told him that although he tight for money he can help out around the house, it would certainly ease the pressure, and he knows that he should be doing that stuff.

He's not denying or passing the blame off any of these things, but I think whats going to make the difference is if he going to actually SHOW me that he is going to change some of these things that i've said.