You're not the one financially supporting him right now though, your parents are. So he's in a hole. Big deal! Lots of us are, but that doesn't mean he should use your parents or you as a free ride to get out of debt. He needs to man up and talk finances with you and show you on paper what he can afford to put towards household expenses.  Even if his entire pay goes towards paying HIS bills, he needs to still somehow lower his payments and start helping at home and NO MORE lending him money. If he is borrowing money from you, then he shouldn't be going out..

Edited By: NancyOttawa 12/06/2010 3:21 PM. Edited 1 times.