i've been talking to him in the midsts of this post.

He says that he knows he doesn't have much to offer right now, he's in a hole and it's going to just take a little time to get his car fixes and get back to a good standing on the money situation. He just needs my help/support while he's down that all. He knows it's not 50/50.

In the meantime, how do I find the balance between supporting/helping him while trying to be 50/50.