Lo Timbalake wrote:
NoRegRets4JuJu wrote:

God, I sound like such a huge clueless basketcase, which I really am not. I'm a pretty independent person but since I've been here (especially since I'm seperated from my family and friends by distance) it doesn't seem like it.
I apperciate the feedback though, I needed to get this all out

  

I'm sorry, in what way are you independent?  It seems to me you are completely dependent on your parents and are looking for some way to assert yourself, but instead of taking responsibility for yourself you're lording it over your loser boyfriend.

How about...  move back to where you're from, get a job, dump the moron and make some better choices?  Because you're moving down a slippery slope and need to deal with the real issue; by taking control of your life, you might actually learn to respect yourself and end up with a worthwhile guy.


   My parents wanted me to get a higher education. I'm fourtunate enough to come from a family that is well off, and they wanted to pay for my school and concentrate on getting a doctorate (which I am working towards). I go home in the summer and I work full time, whatever money I make I save and use it for when I go back to school so I can pay for some stuff like groceries, textbooks and gas so my parents aren't paying for EVERYTHING.