NancyOttawa wrote:
So you moved from Canada to go to graduate school in Boston to be near him, he has a job but pays no rent and you are the one that asked him to move in, and you drive his ass all over the place. Well I can see why you are getting angry but maybe you should have thought twice before moving somewhere mostly to be with a guy that is a bit of a deadbeat. And I can't believe you even invited him to move in rent free in an apartment that your parents are footing the bill for. I'd be livid if I was them! Paying for my daughters apartment so she can let some deadbeat move in and on top of it she cleans for him, cooks for him, and drives his lazy ass to work. Grow up and see this boy for exactly who he is.

You better be laying down some ground rules pretty damn quick and tell him there is going to be some changes and the first one should be that he's paying half the rent and utilities starting now. And what the heck is he doing with all his money if he's not paying rent nor can he even afford to fix his card? SOmethings missing from your story.
I don't have to clue where he money is going. He gets paid weekly which is about $300-400 a week after taxes and so forth. He foots the bill for both our cell phones but it certainly shouldn't be his whole paycheck. I don't have anything to hide/leave out on my side since I KNOW that it's my fault that I'm being the doormat since I started doing all that stuff on my own.