thread killer 00 wrote:
Wow. So, you:
- moved to another country to be with him;
- are his own personal driver, dropping him off and picking him up at school;
- let him stay with you rent-free;
- do the laundry, clean up after him;
- gave him money to fix his car.

And he... sometimes pays for dinner. When he has cash on him.

You are being used. Do something about it if you want it to stop; otherwise, continue to be a doormat.
and if you were in my situation, where you love the guy, but don't want to be/feel used, what would you do? (I'm not being condesending in any way, I geniunely want outside advice)