Lo Timbalake wrote:
NoRegRets4JuJu wrote:
Lo Timbalake wrote:
...Are you familiar with the term "freeloader"?


that's the problem, after all this shit I do for him I feel like I'm getting the short end of the stick and maybe this is why I am getting so angry.
Well, unless this has been going on for less than a month, the only person you should be angry with is yourself.  Any longer than that and it's kind of a "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me" situation.


I know that it's totally my fault since he doesn't ask me to do that stuff, except for driving him to work, I just started to do all the little stuff like cleaning, laundry, on my own, and it's all started to snowball. 

Basically, how do I stop doing everything for him to the point where I am getting resentful, yet still do things that might be just part of a healthy relationship.

God, I sound like such a huge clueless basketcase, which I really am not. I'm a pretty independent person but since I've been here (especially since I'm seperated from my family and friends by distance) it doesn't seem like it.
I apperciate the feedback though, I needed to get this all out