99thdegree wrote:
Either your Dad needs to man up and tell her he can't be at her beck and call.. or you need to leave it alone. It does sound like its negatively affecting your family but at the end of the day its your fathers decision to always be leaving you guys in the lurch while he runs to protect her. People treat you how you let them.
i agree. My Dad is going to continue to do what he likes. It's sad how selfish she is that she can't see how her neediness is becoming detrimental to my family. I hope when i get older, I won't follow in her footsteps. Seriously, I cannot wait to have a sit-down with her therapist.

Thank you everyone for your viewpoints. I've never really vented about something personal here but now i see why a lot of us do it; it's been really helpful. Thanks again!