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I don't know what to do about my boyfriend HELP!!
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 sweeti4509 |
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Posts: 3027 (07/02/2009 11:37 AM) |
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 babycom |
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Posts: 1600 (07/02/2009 11:39 AM) |
Apart from this one thing though I like everything else about him! and I don't really care that he goes through my stuff as I have nothing to hide. I
realise he was trying to avoid this all, but I'm just upset he lied
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pariswhitney |
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Posts: 4716 (07/02/2009 11:39 AM) |
Shut it down.
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Chippy Chippy Shake |
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Posts: 8897 (07/02/2009 11:45 AM) |
babycom wrote: You sound to me like you like him and are insecure in your ability to hang on to him. Therefore, by snooping through his phone and finding things wrong, if he dumps you (which he probably won't) it will be because of something HE did instead of it being because it just didn't work out with you. STOP IT. He's not doing anything, the texts are innocent. You know this, so stop creating nonsense that isn't there. |
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babycom |
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Posts: 1601 (07/02/2009 11:53 AM) |
Chippy Chippy Shake wrote:I think you are right!!!!!!!!!! But I can't stop myself obsessing and I think what is worse is that I told a couple of my friends and they keep talking about it to me and being all like 'dropped him yet' which I think they are dying for me to do!! |
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AmbiguousName |
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Posts: 1785 (07/02/2009 11:53 AM) |
He's just not that into you.
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Froggy86 |
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Posts: 10229 (07/02/2009 11:55 AM) |
sweeti4509 wrote:Because some guys do things like this 
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Chippy Chippy Shake |
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Posts: 8898 (07/02/2009 11:58 AM) |
Dude, never ever ever tell anyone about fights like that especially girl friends, unless its a major deal. You're just sabatoging yourself man. You need to
just hold your head up high and be the best person you know how to be for him, that way.....even with your insecurities, if he leaves, you know that at the end
of the day, you were all you could be. Thats how you battle insecurity, not by snooping or looking for shit that is NOT THERE. Tell your friends you worked it
out (that is if you did) and that its squashed, and if they bring it up...then you can then say "Its over, lets talk about something else".
If YOU did something wrong, or he felt you did something wrong, how would YOU feel if it was just a little spat and he went and told ALL his boys, and then all of his boys were like "Drop the bitch yet?". |
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Nneecolee |
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Posts: 10027 (07/02/2009 12:02 PM) |
The only time I would call my ex behind my s/o back is if I am still interested in him. Your bf changing her name to a guys name is a "DEAL
BREAKER!"-Liz Lemon
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babycom |
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Posts: 1602 (07/02/2009 12:06 PM) |
We have worked out, he's apologised profusely and promised to be honest. He was practically begging me not to leave him. But I just can't stop thinking
about it cos I have trust issues left over from previous relationships
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Chippy Chippy Shake |
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Posts: 8901 (07/02/2009 12:07 PM) |
Nneecolee wrote: This is true sometimes, but not always. One of my best friends is a guy I dated. I have no onterest in him at ALL and he is in a relationship of his own. However, I don't hide it because I am interested, I hide it because if my phone rings, its none of his business. Whether its my Mom or anyone else. That shit becomes his business when he pays for it, or when I LEAVE the church.
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OhManImScrewed |
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Posts: 17097 (07/02/2009 12:07 PM) |
Regardless of WHY he was doing it, it's shitty of him to lie to you about what's going on. And to change the name? Wow. That's just... rude. You
shouldn't be snooping either, but I would feel kind of betrayed by him.
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Nneecolee |
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Posts: 10028 (07/02/2009 12:08 PM) |
Good luck babycom. Hope it gets better!
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Chippy Chippy Shake |
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Posts: 8902 (07/02/2009 12:09 PM) |
babycom wrote: You can not punish people for other peoples mistakes. I used to do this, and its exhausting. |
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babycom |
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Posts: 1603 (07/02/2009 12:13 PM) |
Chippy Chippy Shake wrote: It really is and I am working on it just not very well obviously!!!!! |
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Nneecolee |
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Posts: 10030 (07/02/2009 12:16 PM) |
Babycom, you will be okay. If he's cheating on you... then it will come back to him 10 folds.
You will be okay! Focus on yourself! |
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babycom |
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Posts: 1604 (07/02/2009 12:19 PM) |
Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!
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