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hvnlyinnocent01	So... my husband's ex girlfriend just called our house.	Lead	[-]
Posts: 3514 (06/24/2009 9:42 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	He said she showed up at his job a few days ago, and he was 'nice' to her and talked to her for a few moments bc he didn't want to be ruse, then told her he had to be back at work. Now she's fucking calling our house. He said he didn't pick up. About two years ago, she used to write me on Myspace and and tell me things like, 'you just have to accept the fact that Wesley was in my life for five years' and then proceeded to tell me that they made a pact to get married to by the age of 25 if they never found anyone else, and other stupid childish shit that I could care less about. She used to send me messages every single day, talking about him, being cruel to me. I never responded to her, until I got so fed up with it that I called her on the phone and bitched her out. She stopped for a while. Then she wrote me about 6 months ago and told me she was sorry, how happy she was to be married to her husband... then she'd ask me all these personal questions about Wesley, stuff she had no business talking about... I never wrote her back, just ignored her. Now we're back in FL, in the town she lives in, and she's showing up at his job, conveniently running into his mom at Walmart about a month and half ago and asking her all this crap about my husband, and now calling our house? I'm so irritated. He told me she called and I just blankly stared and smiled at him bc I had nothing nice to say about the situation.
kelli wk		#1	[-]
Posts: 17752 (06/24/2009 9:44 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I'd beat a bitch's ass. why is she still obsessed with them even though she's married herself? her poor husband.
Julez		#2	[-]
Posts: 4846 (06/24/2009 9:47 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I can see this getting stranger down the road. Is there any way you guys can get a restraining order or does she have to physically harm you first? I don't know the requirements behind a restraining order.
elainakicksbutt		#3	[-]
Posts: 543 (06/24/2009 9:47 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	i'd flip my shit.
hvnlyinnocent01		#4	[-]
Posts: 3515 (06/24/2009 9:48 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	That's what I said! In her "nice" email she wrote me about 6 months ago, she was all like, "I love being married, but Bobby and I are having a lot of problems conceiving..." blah blah blah, shit she shouldn't even be telling someone who isn't her friend and who can't tolerate her. I'm not her fucking friend, you know? And then she proceeds to ask me questions about why we haven't had children, what the hold up was, how I knew he was the person for me, if I ever wished I'd changed my mind and not get married.. She's fucking crazy.
BWhammy		#5	[-]
Posts: 4718 (06/24/2009 9:50 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	what a mental bitch
bigredmunkeebutt		#6	[-]
Posts: 13670 (06/24/2009 9:52 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Why are you even talking with her? Block her on Myspace, and if she has your regular email, block her on that, too. Change your phone number if you have to, and inform your husband to stay far away from her. She sounds like a crazy bitch.
hvnlyinnocent01		#7	[-]
Posts: 3517 (06/24/2009 9:52 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	He just keeps telling me to 'ignore it', that she won't do anything to hurt me. He thinks I 'overthink' things, which is why I didn't say anything. He says if he just ignores her, she'll stop. Well, we've been together 4 years now. She hasn't stopped.
RollerGirl19		#8	[-]
Posts: 11308 (06/24/2009 9:52 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	HE needs to tell her to back the fuck off
IHeartLidyPoo		#9	[-]
Posts: 162 (06/24/2009 9:53 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Sounds fishy.
Ho		#10	[-]
Posts: 1092 (06/24/2009 9:55 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	RollerGirl19 wrote: HE needs to tell her to back the fuck off Yep. It's really not that hard to pick up the phone and say "bitch, stop calling here." and hang up.
maia525		#11	[-]
Posts: 1482 (06/24/2009 9:57 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	My boyfriend's ex is a nutcase too. I feel for you. We can't serve a restraining order on her though because she moved and refuses to tell him her new address. Her latest thing is to leave him voicemails at work telling him she's dying. Labored breathing and all. Then when he continues to ignore her, she calls up and bitches him out. She's a fucking psycho.
hvnlyinnocent01		#12	[-]
Posts: 3518 (06/24/2009 10:00 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	So I just went into the living room and told him I was going to call her and find out what she wants, and he said okay. I call the number, and it comes up as 'temporarily disconnected, please try a second number'. It's a CELL phone, and she just called it. I'm going to call her on my cell and see if I get through. And I am going to tell him he needs to tell her to quit. maia525, I feel for you. Holy shit, I would be pissed about the voicemail thing. Amanda has called his cell and left voicemails too, but not that she was dying. She's sent pictures of her in a bra to him before. He just showed me and deleted them off. I mean, I'm thankful he's being honest with me and not keeping me in the dark about her, but still. It's getting tiresome. edit - bigredmunkeebutt - I DON'T talk to her. That's what I've been saying. She just won't let up, she provides all this information w/o a response back from me. She's relentless. And I've blocked her on myspace, and gotten myself a new one. She's written to me on her friends account, and her husband's before. She's carrying on a conversation to me by herself. So I tried calling it and it went through but kept ringing and didn't go to a voicemail. She probably won't pick up bc I *67'ed it, so she wouldn't get my number. I just told him to call her and tell her that she needed to be respectful to both us, as well as her husband, and quit this, and he flipped out on me. He was like "I don't want to talk to her, I don't care what she says, I don't care what she wants, I just don't want to talk to her." I kept telling him all he has to do is tell her to STOP but he won't do it. There's not even a point in arguing w/him about it, he's acting like a baby. Edited By: hvnlyinnocent01 06/24/2009 10:08 PM. Edited 1 times.
Talise81		#13	[-]
Posts: 11327 (06/24/2009 10:04 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	BWhammy wrote: what a mental bitch
sugarshaker		#14	[-]
Posts: 815 (06/24/2009 10:04 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	RollerGirl19 wrote: HE needs to tell her to back the fuck off Agreed. Your husband needs to step up and take care of this. He's obviously not made it plain enough. He needs to tell her she's making everyone uncomfortable and there is no reason for her to have contact with him or any of his family anymore.
Ho		#15	[-]
Posts: 1094 (06/24/2009 10:05 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	maia525 wrote: Her latest thing is to leave him voicemails at work telling him she's dying. Labored breathing and all. Then when he continues to ignore her, she calls up and bitches him out. She's a fucking psycho.
TYCP Sha		#16	[-]
Posts: 97058 (06/24/2009 10:05 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	This is some "Fatal Attraction" shit. That bitch needs to back off.
Charrm		#17	[-]
Posts: 10519 (06/24/2009 10:06 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	um, wait a minute. you said you're now BACK in fl and she's calling your house? how did she get your number?
maia525		#18	[-]
Posts: 1483 (06/24/2009 10:07 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Yeah, he needs to tell her to stop. ONLY the threat of a restraining order got through to my boyfriend's ex. She still tries contacting him once in awhile, but it's much more sporadic and usually she calls his office phone to leave messages when she knows he's not at work. Maybe your husband should try that. It's frustrating though. I've wanted so many times to contact her myself and tell her to stop, but I think she'd get some kind of kick out of that. It's just better to ignore people like this, I think.
Talise81		#19	[-]
Posts: 11328 (06/24/2009 10:07 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	one more thing, your husband needs to stop being nice - he needs to be really firm, really nasty and really direct and let her know he's sick of it, it's disrespectful and to STAY AWAY from him, you and anyone associated with him. i'd also tell her (if i were him) that if she doesn't he's going to contact her husband and see how he feels about it. he's gonna have to be that rough to get a mental bitch like that to back off. if that doesn't work, put a rabbit in her pot.
PuraVidaPanama		#20	[-]
Posts: 15561 (06/24/2009 10:14 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I think it's your husband's duty to put his ex in her proper place. Not you. He needs to man up.

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