My ex-husbands parents are going nuts right now

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PENNYFOURYOURTHOUGHTS		#21	[-]
Posts: 883 (06/22/2009 11:39 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	She can't force you to change your last name. It's sad that she doesn't want anything to do with HER grandchildren, all the sudden. What did her husband say? I wouldn't do it. If she wants to bitch about it, then let her. IF she pulls that bullshit card about "You keep the grandkids away from me!" shit, then fuck her.
PENNYFOURYOURTHOUGHTS		#22	[-]
Posts: 883 (06/22/2009 11:39 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	DP
likeokayandstuff		#23	[-]
Posts: 1117 (06/22/2009 11:45 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I'm so sorry you're going through this! It's really weird that all of a sudden she would act the way she is. I guess my advice would be to just cut contact with her and if you want to keep the last name then keep it! She has no right to take that from you. Hopefully, in time she'll be able to figure out her feelings and contact you again when she's ready?
likeokayandstuff		#24	[-]
Posts: 1118 (06/22/2009 11:45 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	DP
IHeartLidyPoo		#25	[-]
Posts: 117 (06/22/2009 11:46 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	theNavigator wrote: I wouldn't keep in contact with her. Legally you can fight her in court if it means that much, or maybe you should just go back to your maden name and leave the kids let them carry on their fathers last name. ...Or she could just ignore this bullshit and continue on with her daily life.
Pliant Pineapple		#26	[-]
Posts: 45247 (06/22/2009 11:47 PM) Funniest JJBer '06 JJBer of the Year '07 Funniest JJBer '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	i take it back! Edited By: Pliant Pineapple 06/23/2009 12:20 PM. Edited 1 times.
AlwaysSomeoneElse		#27	[-]
Posts: 2673 (06/22/2009 11:51 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	WTF?? fine, don't be in her life but change your names? Yeah she's off her rocker.
AmberElise04		#28	[-]
Posts: 5253 (06/22/2009 11:51 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I'd keep my damn name. Who is she to tell you that you can't be apart of that "family" anymore. What, is she angry cause memories of her attempting to be president of a childhood club fell through so she's just now deciding to play Club Prez and kick out members? No, can do woman. VETO her ass and keep your name!!!!!!! Disclaimer: I apologize if the above statement makes no sense what-so-ever. 30 minutes of sleep on an unexpected 12 hour shift is never a good thing. I NEED COFFEE DAMMIT!
bluegrass60062		#29	[-]
Posts: 16937 (06/22/2009 11:53 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	so your kids lost their dad like that, and she wants to pull this on them? and arrived at this conclusion by praying about it? yeah, that's Christian.
Spamster		#30	[-]
Posts: 3194 (06/22/2009 11:53 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I mean I'm not going to fight with her about it. I wrote her back and let her know that I'm not going rounds with her either but if she wants to cut ties then cut ties but we have a very, very common last name and it's not fair to do that to my children because like it or not that was their father just as much as he was her son and it's not fair to take his last name away from them. Especially with them all being old enough to understand what's going on. She didn't write back. Cutting ties is one thing but the name change is just too much. I don't know what's going on with her but it must be something huge. This lady has treated me like her very own daughter since before I married her son. She's been nothing but good to me and my kids.
Yeah Christianne		#31	[-]
Posts: 6733 (06/23/2009 12:02 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Maybe she and her husband are getting a divorce. Either way, your ex is the father of those children. Just because he died doesn't mean they can't have any connection to him anymore.
Charrm		#32	[-]
Posts: 10510 (06/23/2009 12:07 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	blair4990 wrote: The kids are his so they should have his last name. You need a lawyer. why would SHE need a lawyer? it's not uncommon for a woman to keep her husband's last name even after they divorce. the MIL can't force her to change her name. it shouldn't concern her what their name is. she needs to pray again.
Spamster		#33	[-]
Posts: 3195 (06/23/2009 12:10 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	In one of her e-mails she said that he (her husband) initiated this and they're both in agreement on it. So I don't think they're getting a divorce. She just went on and on about us having their family name.
la bella vista		#34	[-]
Posts: 5991 (06/23/2009 12:11 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	maybe it has to do with something legal? like iono? insurance? either on ur ex husband...or something alone with her and her husband life. lol i'm prolly thinking too hard. but recently, my grandmother wants to do a living will. her house and suchs and how my grandma needs to get all my uncles and aunts together to sign off on some stuff becaues my grandpa never left a will. and maybe since they are next in line for something? iono. and you signing off ur kids is diong something?
evamarie32	OH BOY some people need to be fuckin' tased once a day!	#35	[-]
Posts: 151 (06/23/2009 1:11 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	la bella vista wrote: maybe it has to do with something legal? like iono? insurance? either on ur ex husband...or something alone with her and her husband life. lol i'm prolly thinking too hard. but recently, my grandmother wants to do a living will. her house and suchs and how my grandma needs to get all my uncles and aunts together to sign off on some stuff becaues my grandpa never left a will. and maybe since they are next in line for something? iono. and you signing off ur kids is diong something? I thought that too. I had my ex-husband's current w(hatever the hell she is because OOPS wife isn't one of them!) make a stink about me having his last name (she told me, "You aren't married anymore WE are) for about 2 or 3 years and each and every time I told her, "take it up with him. When the judge asked me if I wanted my maiden name back I turned to my ex and asked if I needed to and he said NO, keep it the same as the kids. We were married you know!" So I still have his last name. I don't care if she says a lawyer is involved...she is full of crap. No lawyer will be able to change your name without YOUR consent and a judge's authority. It's too bad that she has turned on you and your kids when the kids have already lost their father and she has lost a son but what is she dissing his kids?? Could be a sign of her MENTAL state...maybe the loss of her son pushed her to a fragile state of mind??? Either way let her emails and stuff go for now...it sucks but they don't need to hear their grandmother doesn't want nothing to do with them. Man, what the hell is going on with some people? Life is hard enough for our children as it is!! I'm grateful for all the people who love my kids related or not...I'd fuck someone up if they came at my kids foul and tried to hurt their bodies or their minds you know?? hmmmmm hang in there Spamster...
merchasa		#36	[-]
Posts: 2098 (06/23/2009 1:37 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	You and your children have zero obligation under the law to change your name, divorced women may keep their married name and the children will keep their legal names irrespective of the divorce. There is nothing legally they can do. Why do they hate you?
Ho		#37	[-]
Posts: 1079 (06/23/2009 1:51 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	That's crazy. I would keep it just to spite her. At least for awhile.
x Mea Culpa x		#38	[-]
Posts: 1205 (06/23/2009 1:52 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	that is horrible!
ripcurlgirl83		#39	[-]
Posts: 4693 (06/23/2009 1:52 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	so she doesnt want anything to do with her grandchildren??? im sorry u have to deal with this... so hurtful!
rockcandy2008		#40	[-]
Posts: 2441 (06/23/2009 2:38 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	She's blaming you and the kids for her son's death. This is how she's grieving and its pretty psycho.

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