And tells me that they aren't getting back together and not to be mad at him because he's being honest. So glad he decides to be honest about it, and
even more glad that I haven't fucked the guy. There's no way I'm getting involved w/ him now. I give up on guys, for real. The end.
So my crush is out to dinner w/ his ex g/f.
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Story of my life
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Posts: 6096 (06/20/2009 8:19 PM) |
If he's just your crush, not to be mean, but what concern is it of your's what he does. If he was a boyfriend then I could understand.
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Posts: 307 (06/20/2009 8:21 PM) |
SERIOUSLY. This guy texts/calls/IM's me DAILY about how much he likes me and wants to see me. I'm debating just cutting off all ties w/ him.
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Posts: 308 (06/20/2009 8:33 PM) |
NancyOttawa wrote: I know. I guess just because we both admitted to liking each other that is a reason for me to feel kind of hurt by this. And he keeps apologizing saying that they dated for 9 months and that they are just friends with no intentions of getting back together. I just don't like the vibe. |
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Posts: 6098 (06/20/2009 8:40 PM) |
ahh, I see.
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Posts: 26148 (06/20/2009 8:42 PM) Biggest Sports Fan '08 |
You sound needy.
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Posts: 309 (06/20/2009 9:26 PM) |
How do i sound needy? I just don't want to get involved with a guy that still sees his ex g/f's.
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Posts: 2187 (06/20/2009 9:28 PM) |
If you have a funny vibe, listen to your gut instinct. I'd be disappointed too.
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Posts: 34481 (06/20/2009 9:29 PM) |
He's probably doing it to get a point across to you. He's not going to wait forever for you. Make a move, girl!
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brittdelano wrote: what's wrong with a casual relationship with her? you do sound needy. i could POSSIBLY fathom you being upset if you were the steady GF and he was doing this (i stress possibly), but at this point, you need to chill. |
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Posts: 7769 (06/20/2009 9:31 PM) |
how old are you?
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Posts: 6023 (06/20/2009 9:34 PM) |
If he is swearing that they are just friends, what's the problem? I don't think someone can expect their bf/gf to never speak with their ex's ever
again, especially if they're the type of people to stay friends with their ex's.
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Posts: 2414 (06/20/2009 9:35 PM) |
brittdelano wrote: I don't understand. He tells you he's not getting back together with an old girlfriend and you are mad at him? 
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Posts: 15811 (06/20/2009 9:37 PM) |
He's just not that into you.
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PRIORisMYdesire wrote: 
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Posts: 11940 (06/20/2009 9:45 PM) |
Okay, so he isnt your man, yall are just friends, right? Why are you bothered by this? I swear, this is why men think we're all crazy. Some of us trip
about stuff that no one should ever even sweat.
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Posts: 12683 (06/20/2009 9:51 PM) |
It's nice that he told you. Like, he didn't have to. At all.
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Posts: 310 (06/20/2009 9:51 PM) |
They had just broken up when me and him started talking, and I told him from day 1 that I wasn't getting involved with a guy that was still friends with
his ex. Call me crazy, but that's just how I am. Actually just the other day he told me that he deleted her completely.
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Posts: 6420 (06/20/2009 9:57 PM) |
I'm confused with your "relationship" with this guy. You're saying that he's your crush... yet he's already established that he's
into you?
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