I am so tired of females acting like this. Maybe when you are 14 you have a right to be this immature about men. But, you are a grown woman screaming the
victim card because your friend exchanged a number with a guy you aren't even interested in. And no, you are not really interested in him if you didn't
DO something after he tried to exchange numbers with the cousin. And if you were THAT interested in him you are a spineless passive wobbly mess of a female
that needs to grow some and not sit in your room waiting for me to beat down your door and forcefully swoop you off your feet. Suck it up as a life experience
and next time let it go if you aren't that interested or put some effort into connecting with the guy.
The guy I like asked my friend out. She took his number
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Posts: 3890 (06/19/2009 3:21 PM) |
Oh I hate when this sort of shit goes down. It hasn't happened to me but it's happened to a male friend of mine. He dated a girl for ages, they split
(he wasn't happy about it and he always wanted her back... still does). Anyway recently found out not long after they split her and his best mate for the
past 10 years or so hooked up.... I mean, ouch that's gotta hurt (and I fancied his best mate which is why I was semi involved!).
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Posts: 2824 (06/19/2009 3:26 PM) |
I don't think the unspoken rules of friendship fit in this circumstances. You don't really want him, but nobody else can have him?
 He was told no
and you had no desire to go after him. It's your own fault. He was interested, but it sounds like you wanted him to chase after you and are pissed off he
moved on to your friend. I think it's shitty of you to trash talk her.
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Posts: 1023 (06/19/2009 3:31 PM) |
You need to get fucked.
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Posts: 39621 (06/19/2009 3:32 PM) |
I'm going back and forth on this. On one hand I would never touch a guy that my friend liked for loyalty reasons (hoes before bros kind of deal) but at the
same time if I liked someone and they happened to like my friend, and my friend happened to like them back and I could see some potential for them, I'd
back off. What the hell is the point in fighting for someone you can't have and damning her potential happiness? I would hope that any friend of mine would
do and act the same way toward me.
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Posts: 3891 (06/19/2009 3:40 PM) |
Shit happens, as they say. People can't help who they fall for but it doesn't make it hurt any less.
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Posts: 16949 (06/19/2009 3:41 PM) |
dear lady wrote:I agree with this, but if there is REALLY something between them, the friend should have at least waited until this girl was over her crush on this guy. Dating a guy your friend crushed on for a while isn't terrible, as long as there is a little time in between. Otherwise it's just rubbing it in. (Yes, I realize this isn't 5th grade and saying "crush" is stupid, but I couldn't think of a better word.) |
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Posts: 7004 (06/19/2009 3:41 PM) |
JCs SexyTary wrote: Wuuuuut? Your story is way more extreme than the OP's. |
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Posts: 398 (06/19/2009 3:43 PM) |
OP needs to calm down on the lol's. They're in almost every response she posted and it's driving me bananas.
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Posts: 108813 (06/19/2009 3:44 PM) JC Fanatic '03
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She never turned him down because she never told him she liked him!
And everyone should agree with me. Makes life so much more simple. |
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Posts: 7005 (06/19/2009 3:46 PM) |
OhManImScrewed wrote: A crush or instant attraction? Seems to me she didn't even know the guy that well at all and turned him down. If she liked him so much that it "hurt" she would have went out with him. |
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Posts: 399 (06/19/2009 3:46 PM) |
I thought he asked for her number first and she said no. Or cousin said no. Whatever, it's all the same. She could have told her cousin to stay out of her
business but didn't so in my opinion she still turned him down. Which equals fair game for her friend.
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Posts: 7006 (06/19/2009 3:47 PM) |
LisaChasez wrote: No her cousin did and she agreed with it. |
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Posts: 9747 (06/19/2009 3:52 PM) |
babydtc23 wrote: Exactly. I am also tired of girls thinking they have "claimed" a man if they said they think he is cute. One of my friends said she found a bartender to be cute. That was it. Another friend ended up striking up a conversation and dating him in the next month. Now first friend is wailing and moaning to everyone about how she was "done wrong" and how she claimed him first and that WHORE stole him. I want to shake her. |
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Posts: 108815 (06/19/2009 3:53 PM) JC Fanatic '03
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babydtc23 wrote:she agreed now, not when this all went down. |
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Posts: 3892 (06/19/2009 4:00 PM) |
babydtc23 wrote: Its a very recent true story i'm afraid, but I mean, it happens sadly. Here's hoping they genuinely like each other, which i'm assuming they do as they have been together for a few months now... but they kept it quiet as they knew the original boyfriend would go mad. But shit happens, life goes on. I just feel so bad for the orginal boyfriend, he's confiding in me quite a bit, I presume because I fancied his mate (me and his mate hooked up at NYE and then again when I returned from travels, he then proceeded to treat me badly!) but he doesn't feel he can speak to either of the really. But yeah shitty situation. |
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Posts: 7009 (06/19/2009 4:00 PM) |
LisaChasez wrote: Well I am confused then because she said this: everything except this my best friend told him im not a hoe because has a lot of girls...I didn't say that...she told me she was watching out for me and I'm glad, but because I said no to him doesn't mean that my other friend can go fuck him when I like him. 
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Posts: 108819 (06/19/2009 4:01 PM) JC Fanatic '03
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She's changed her story about a dozen times. Bottom line: She liked the guy and said guy macked on friend in front of her. Afterwards she found out Cousin
said no to giving number, and she's glad she didn't hook up with guy but still hates girl.
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Posts: 736 (06/19/2009 4:24 PM) |
Get over it.
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Posts: 5220 (06/19/2009 5:44 PM) |
This is a clusterfuck of
Questions/Statements I need answered/spoken: A.) You like guy--guy likes girl (not you)--Girl is friend--girl is desperate (Not you) B.) Guys cousin turns down guy for YOUR number says cause you aint a "ho" C.) Desperate girl snatches up guys numbe D.) She's now a backstabber E.) You liked the guy but now you are THANKFUL you didn't give him your number yet you didn't get him your number nor did you turn him down for it, his cousin did F.) You are laughing at us because we think you are 1.) Desperate 2.) Alone YET you claim that you are not alone so........this brings me to this final question: G.) IF YOU ARE NOT ALONE WHY ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT THIS GUY!? p.s.--How do you know the cousin really made that statement when she told the guy no? I highly doubt she said "You can't have her number cause she's not a ho." I'm thinking it was more of this: Him: can I have _________ number? Her: 
Him: Nevermind. |
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