The guy I like asked my friend out. She took his number

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LisaChasez		#61	[-]
Posts: 108806 (06/19/2009 1:11 PM) JC Fanatic '03 JC Fanatic '05 Most Loyal *NSYNC Fan '06 Most Outspoken '07 Most Likely To Reply '08 Most Opinionated '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	The problem with unspoken agreements is you're not sure if the other party agrees with you.
Kisses4NSync		#62	[-]
Posts: 12146 (06/19/2009 1:12 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	LisaChasez wrote: Kisses4NSync wrote Well if you really did like him, why wouldn't you give him your number when he asked you? It doesn't make sense. Apparently the guy asked his cousin for the number, the cousin said no. So the OP didn't follow up on her own, merely let the cousin decide. Ohhh, I must not have caught that part. That's crazy! Unless she really is 12, I think she should be making her own decisions as to who she wants to go out with. Wow.
xxGirlxxFixerxx		#63	[-]
Posts: 2280 (06/19/2009 1:14 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	TheWayIFeel wrote: StrawberryKissMary wrote: i think it should be an unspoken rule between friends not to date/hook up with a guy when its clear the other person is interested in a guy. but thats just me. i would never do this to a friend of mine. Thank you! Only thing I'm going to say about this is, no matter what, unspoken or verbally agreed upon, they can always just say fuck it I'd rather have the peen. So just look out for yourself and don't trust others to be looking out for you. Again my friend and I had a SPOKEN agreement about what's okay and what isn't and that did not stop her from doing what she did. So don't fall for that spoken/unspoken crap, because it's total bullshit.
TheWayIFeel		#64	[-]
Posts: 652 (06/19/2009 1:17 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	xxGirlxxFixerxx wrote: TheWayIFeel wrote: StrawberryKissMary wrote: i think it should be an unspoken rule between friends not to date/hook up with a guy when its clear the other person is interested in a guy. but thats just me. i would never do this to a friend of mine. Thank you! Only thing I'm going to say about this is, no matter what, unspoken or verbally agreed upon, they can always just say fuck it I'd rather have the peen. So just look out for yourself and don't trust others to be looking out for you. Again my friend and I had a SPOKEN agreement about what's okay and what isn't and that did not stop her from doing what she did. So don't fall for that spoken/unspoken crap, because it's total bullshit. we had that talk because it happened with another guy too....she went after him....he didn't want anything. maybe i should hook myself up with the guy she wants.
StrawberryKissMary		#65	[-]
Posts: 8168 (06/19/2009 1:19 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	im sorry to say that, but your friend sucks. if shes doing that more than once it sounds like shes competing over guys with you.
babydtc23		#66	[-]
Posts: 6991 (06/19/2009 1:19 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	1) I don't understand how this guy is automatically accused of just wanting sex by asking for your # 2) If he is like that why would you like him in the first place? 3) Your friend sounds like a bitch who likes to fuck with you by competing with you 4) You say you are not one to ask out a guy, yet didn't the guy ask for YOUR # and your cousin turned him down, and then you did nothing about it even though you liked him? In conclusion you want to wait for a guy to ask you out but even if he does by asking for your #, you still do nothing because that means he just thinks you are a hoe. Do I have this right?
TheWayIFeel		#67	[-]
Posts: 653 (06/19/2009 1:20 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Kisses4NSync wrote: LisaChasez wrote: Kisses4NSync wrote Well if you really did like him, why wouldn't you give him your number when he asked you? It doesn't make sense. Apparently the guy asked his cousin for the number, the cousin said no. So the OP didn't follow up on her own, merely let the cousin decide. Ohhh, I must not have caught that part. That's crazy! Unless she really is 12, I think she should be making her own decisions as to who she wants to go out with. Wow. lol dude I didn't know until she told me she told him no....he kept talking to me all night and ignoring her....by the end of the night he for some reason stopped talking to me and asked for her number she was all and then told me it's not my fault i just like lol
xxGirlxxFixerxx		#68	[-]
Posts: 2282 (06/19/2009 1:22 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	TheWayIFeel wrote: xxGirlxxFixerxx wrote: TheWayIFeel wrote: StrawberryKissMary wrote: i think it should be an unspoken rule between friends not to date/hook up with a guy when its clear the other person is interested in a guy. but thats just me. i would never do this to a friend of mine. Thank you! Only thing I'm going to say about this is, no matter what, unspoken or verbally agreed upon, they can always just say fuck it I'd rather have the peen. So just look out for yourself and don't trust others to be looking out for you. Again my friend and I had a SPOKEN agreement about what's okay and what isn't and that did not stop her from doing what she did. So don't fall for that spoken/unspoken crap, because it's total bullshit. we had that talk because it happened with another guy too....she went after him....he didn't want anything. maybe i should hook myself up with the guy she wants. Honestly you can be a bitter betty about this whole situation or you can re-evaluate your friendship with this person and either get rid of her and be done with it all or get over it and tell yourself that from now on you do things for yourself and not expect her or anyone else to stop and think "hmmm would TheWayIFeel like this guy and be mad if I wanted to pursue him?" because it's not going to happen. It's not. Sorry. It is what it is and maybe down the road you'll be lucky enough to find a friend that thinks exactly like you 100% and you won't have any of these issues but the likelihood of that happening is low so just learn from this and move on. Believe me, it's not worth dwelling on for too long and seeking any sort of revenge.
TheWayIFeel		#69	[-]
Posts: 654 (06/19/2009 1:22 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	StrawberryKissMary wrote: im sorry to say that, but your friend sucks. if shes doing that more than once it sounds like shes competing over guys with you. Yes and she seeks attention from guys all the time. lol
Triple X Tera		#70	[-]
Posts: 32417 (06/19/2009 1:23 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	If the guys is known to get around and my friend is a bitch, I wouldn't be upset about what happened. I'd just hope he'd fuck her and leave her jk jk
TheWayIFeel		#71	[-]
Posts: 655 (06/19/2009 1:25 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	babydtc23 wrote: 1) I don't understand how this guy is automatically accused of just wanting sex by asking for your # 2) If he is like that why would you like him in the first place? 3) Your friend sounds like a bitch who likes to fuck with you by competing with you 4) You say you are not one to ask out a guy, yet didn't the guy ask for YOUR # and your cousin turned him down, and then you did nothing about it even though you liked him? In conclusion you want to wait for a guy to ask you out but even if he does by asking for your #, you still do nothing because that means he just thinks you are a hoe. Do I have this right? everything except this my best friend told him im not a hoe because has a lot of girls...I didn't say that...she told me she was watching out for me and I'm glad, but because I said no to him doesn't mean that my other friend can go fuck him when I like him. I mean if he had asked for my number and I said no...and I didn't like him.....then i would give two fucks if they got together.
katierules15		#72	[-]
Posts: 4641 (06/19/2009 1:26 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	You're an equally shitty friend for not having the guts to confront her about how her actions hurt you, but going behind her back and trashing her. I hate girls like that, you guys think that everyone can read your mind or should just roll over and die because you're too pussy to go for what you want in life.
TheWayIFeel		#73	[-]
Posts: 656 (06/19/2009 1:28 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Triple X Tera wrote: If the guys is known to get around and my friend is a bitch, I wouldn't be upset about what happened. I'd just hope he'd fuck her and leave her jk jk lol well I really hope so...and i'm not making excuses because with her everything is just UGH....I've made post about her before and she's done so many shitty things. And yea I know I have to make my decisions oh well now I just gotta get over it
TheWayIFeel		#74	[-]
Posts: 657 (06/19/2009 1:30 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	katierules15 wrote: You're an equally shitty friend for not having the guts to confront her about how her actions hurt you, but going behind her back and trashing her. I hate girls like that, you guys think that everyone can read your mind or should just roll over and die because you're too pussy to go for what you want in life. lol actually all this was confronted yesterday so fuck off.....all she had to say back was it was not my fault
babydtc23		#75	[-]
Posts: 6992 (06/19/2009 1:31 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	TheWayIFeel wrote: babydtc23 wrote: 1) I don't understand how this guy is automatically accused of just wanting sex by asking for your # 2) If he is like that why would you like him in the first place? 3) Your friend sounds like a bitch who likes to fuck with you by competing with you 4) You say you are not one to ask out a guy, yet didn't the guy ask for YOUR # and your cousin turned him down, and then you did nothing about it even though you liked him? In conclusion you want to wait for a guy to ask you out but even if he does by asking for your #, you still do nothing because that means he just thinks you are a hoe. Do I have this right? everything except this my best friend told him im not a hoe because has a lot of girls...I didn't say that...she told me she was watching out for me and I'm glad, but because I said no to him doesn't mean that my other friend can go fuck him when I like him. I mean if he had asked for my number and I said no...and I didn't like him.....then i would give two fucks if they got together. So you said no to him or your friend say no to him for you? I'm confused. Why would you like a guy who is an asshole who uses girls for sex and then get mad that your dumbass friend doesn't even care he would just be using her? Let him use her and she can learn her own lesson. I mean it's like you are saying "I like this douchebag but won't date him, but fuck if anyone else can" It sounds to me you didn't even really know this guy at all, otherwise you would have known he was some kind of player to begin with. Maybe it isn't your friend who isn't the one with issues. You seem to be confusing as hell when it comes to guys and maybe your friend and guys don't know which way to go with you. Edited By: babydtc23 06/19/2009 1:33 PM. Edited 1 times.
Master Zik.niketalk		#76	[-]
Posts: 18 (06/19/2009 1:32 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	It's not that you're young therefore naive cuz I'm 21 and I'd think most girls at my age would know how to handle some situations. I know I can't pull most of this shit with girls anymore. Take it as another experience. Live and learn
katierules15		#77	[-]
Posts: 4642 (06/19/2009 1:33 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	TheWayIFeel wrote: lol actually all this was confronted yesterday so fuck off.....all she had to say back was it was not my fault But it isn't her fault. You prob don't even know the guy, just saw him a few times and thought he was hot, because if you did know him, you'd probably have his number. Why do you even care if he has a lot of girls anyway? And who caress if your friend likes to have guys for fun. Doesn't make her desperate, it makes YOU desperate because you're the one alone and whining about it.
JustBrit2007		#78	[-]
Posts: 25117 (06/19/2009 1:44 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I'm with LisaChasez. Sorry she did that too but if you like a guy and don't make the move then that's to be expected. Someone will hook up with him whether it's your friend or someone else.
babydtc23		#79	[-]
Posts: 6995 (06/19/2009 1:49 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Why did you make a post about a whole bunch of fuckery and then ignore people who ask questions? It makes me want to pull your damn hair and whack you with a pool stick.
TheWayIFeel		#80	[-]
Posts: 658 (06/19/2009 3:02 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	lol sorry I went to take a shower

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