prettygirl22 wrote:
It's just spanking. Not really a big deal.
Kate Gosselin "Losing control" Spanking her child
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Solo Mish |
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Posts: 2350 (06/17/2009 3:46 PM) |
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BrunetteBella |
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Posts: 1941 (06/17/2009 3:58 PM) |
This thread is ridiculous. Some of you need to have children before commenting. Shit, people. Ghetto asses.
I absolutely don't believe hitting in any way to correct behavior works, but this story is just stupid. Really now. |
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VelvetRope11 |
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Posts: 30710 (06/17/2009 3:59 PM) |
It's just spanking. It's no where near child abuse or "bad" parenting in a normal caring household.
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BrunetteBella |
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Posts: 1942 (06/17/2009 3:59 PM) |
Lilla Bean wrote: Yes because an "ass whooping" is going to promote such healthy, functional behavior. Please. |
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Vectorious |
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Posts: 640 (06/17/2009 4:02 PM) |
BrunetteBella wrote:Hmmm, this should be interesting
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Truffle Shuffle |
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Posts: 2295 (06/17/2009 4:03 PM) |
I used to laugh at my parents when they tried spanking me.
/memories |
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ThisIsErin |
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Truffle Shuffle wrote:LMFAO I did to, it only made them more mad |
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x Pahk The Cah x |
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Posts: 15397 (06/17/2009 4:19 PM) |
I feel like they talked about spanking and how they didn't believe in it in a past season when things were going good. I wonder if they always have spanked
or this is something new when the cameras are off...
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TheFreshPrincess |
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Posts: 2154 (06/17/2009 4:22 PM) |
shoebaby1 wrote: lol! |
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stinkys divorcee |
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Posts: 4200 (06/17/2009 4:25 PM) |
MilkWasABadChoice wrote: My mom knows how to do the "death stare" really well. She still does it to me and I dont' like it, and I'm 25! But on the rest of this post, I'm all for spanking. Not all children learn from timeouts or just a slap on the hand. And DEFINETLY not all children will learn from you having a discussion of what they were doing wrong, especially not when they're 2 or 3 years old. |
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SusieMC |
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Posts: 424 (06/17/2009 4:28 PM) |
I think just letting kids know that the possibility of an ass beating is totally there if you push it. That's definitely what stopped me from going any
further.
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stinkys divorcee |
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Posts: 4202 (06/17/2009 4:29 PM) |
My mom used to give us a choice. Either get spanked now and then we'd get to go out and play, or get grounded to our room for an hour.
I was a wuss. I always chose my room. |
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harmnybunny |
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Posts: 14834 (06/17/2009 4:31 PM) |
Oh geez, I hate how sensitive people are with child beating/abuse. I feel like the whole thing makes parents more scared to discipline their kids.
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RoCkJ03 |
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Posts: 88398 (06/17/2009 4:40 PM) |
A bunch of you people here would be a lot more tolerable if you had been spanked as a kid.
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Ewookie |
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Posts: 390 (06/17/2009 4:41 PM) |
Alex the Goob wrote:
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VelvetRope11 |
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Posts: 30713 (06/17/2009 4:44 PM) |
Ewookie wrote: You can take that arguement all the way to how is yelling at your child not abuse, how is getting into a fight with your spouse in front of your child not "abusive" in some way to your child...etc. Forms of punishment, even spanking are not abuse in the sense of REAL abuse, abuse can be any form of punishment that is continuous with malicious intent where no care for the child ever comes into play before during or after the form of punishment. A spanking is not necessarily done with malicious uncaring intent, that is also not followed up with by other actions through out the child's life that convey a loving parent-child relationship. I can't understand the arguement spanking is horrible and doesn't work as punishment 100% of the time when you have people on here admiting spanking didn't do any harm "abuse" would do to a child, it was a decent form of punishment that got the replier to stop what they were doing, and are fine with the issue.
Edited By: VelvetRope11
06/17/2009 4:49 PM.
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Samantha James |
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LuvBug |
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Posts: 2891 (06/17/2009 4:47 PM) |
Alex the Goob wrote: |
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Rochelle1120 |
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Posts: 403 (06/17/2009 4:48 PM) |
So she spanked her kid. Big fucking deal. My mom used to light my ass up when I acted out.
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folkbitts |
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Posts: 849 (06/17/2009 4:49 PM) |
That family couldn't resist "easy" money and attention, but it's going to tear them apart.
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