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l0pez	I seriously don't get my mother sometimes..	Lead	[-]
Posts: 1363 (06/16/2009 6:41 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I recently found out that a teacher I had before has been sending weird messages to one of my old friend from school.. I've Never liked the guy, he always gave me the creeps. He's Super religious and talked about sin all the time. He's 39, has two kids and he's married.. He sendt her messages on facebook one night saying he would have liked it if she was there snuggled up agains him in his arms.. he just had to put his little girl to sleep first..Seriously Anyway there was always something weird about him in school too. He stayed/slept in one of the other students room all night sometimes.. I'm kinda freaking out about this because I was molested when I was a child, my mother knows this, but we never really talk about.. So I thought maybe this would be a good time to bring it up, so I tell her this story but she just reacts like it's nothing serious!! What's even worse is that he started a new job at junior high school last year I think..I'm so disgusted by him, but more at my mom for reacting this way! Do you think I'm overreacting?!
AmberElise04		#1	[-]
Posts: 5207 (06/16/2009 7:17 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	a.) How old are you? b.) He sent your friend the messages, not you, she should speak up if it bothered her. c.) Ewwww @ creepy old men
l0pez		#2	[-]
Posts: 1364 (06/16/2009 7:22 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I'm 25. She came to me wondering that to do! They never really had a close relationship in school either, so.. That's why I went to my mom for advice but she just brushed it off like it's nothing..yuck
NancyOttawa		#3	[-]
Posts: 6014 (06/16/2009 8:33 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I assume your friend is your age. So then your friend should just tell him to back off! Case closed.
Momobobo		#4	[-]
Posts: 11047 (06/16/2009 8:41 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	NancyOttawa wrote: I assume your friend is your age. So then your friend should just tell him to back off! Case closed. Honestly, how does a 25 year old not know how to tell some creepy dude to back off. Besides what are you afraid of? a 39 year old man molesting a 25 year old?
folkbitts		#5	[-]
Posts: 844 (06/16/2009 8:55 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Issue #1 That guy should not be a teacher. If he just got a new job at a school, you should talk to the principal. Issue #2 Did your mum not protect you when you needed her most? It's weird that you never talked about the molestation. Did you not get counseling or anything? I'm really sorry, that sounds horrible.
l0pez		#6	[-]
Posts: 1365 (06/16/2009 7:34 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Momobobo wrote: NancyOttawa wrote: I assume your friend is your age. So then your friend should just tell him to back off! Case closed. Honestly, how does a 25 year old not know how to tell some creepy dude to back off. Besides what are you afraid of? a 39 year old man molesting a 25 year old? He creeps me the Hell out so yes. And she came to me for advice, but I'm confused by the situation. All I said was that if he did that to me I would maybe play along with him and hopefully get enought info to eventually bust his ass. I didn't really know what else to tell her, bc no one ever stood up for me when I was young. So it's more about us trying to find a way to find evidence to proof that he's a pedophile or misusing his teaching possition. That's why I asked my mom, but she was being a huge jerk about it.
EJFiederer		#7	[-]
Posts: 13279 (06/16/2009 7:44 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	The way to deal with a bad situation is NOT to stay in it long enough to gather evidence. You don't live your REAL life like a bad B movie. If you question somebody's intentions you do everything you can to stay away from them. What if something goes wrong before you get the "evidence" you need. That being said, what happened to you as a child was a horrible thing, but it isn't fair to turn this teacher into a pedophile or throw him into the same category as your molester. If he spent that much time in the room of a student I can only assume that said student didn't exactly mind all that much. If your friend wants to get rid of him I'm sure she knows what to say and do to make that happen. Again, these are 2 adults we're talking about. Not one perverted adult and an innocent child.
l0pez		#8	[-]
Posts: 1366 (06/16/2009 8:05 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	well, he's been trying to add me 5 times on facebook so I finally caved in. I'm not saying I would accuse him of anything but if he approaches me I think I will play along.. And with him staying in her room, she was 19 at the time so I feel it's a little bit different than if she was 25. There were girls at the school as young as 15 at the time also.

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