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jc4me18		#41	[-]
Posts: 13952 (06/16/2009 10:15 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	idontknowwhat wrote: McCaining Around wrote: idontknowwhat wrote: insane man hating woman who recently had her heart broken and lost all trust in men. Sounds like me oh goody. can we bitch about men and women alike? for example, my friend tells me i hold too much negativity against men. obviously she wasn't in my situation and doesn't know what it's like to be lied to for 3 years, but her claim was that as soon as I let go of the negativity, i will find someone. well you know what, for someone that is sooooo anti-negative, she is still fucking single! care to explain that one to me??? /crazy woman rant who wants to strangle her friends You sound exactly like me! I have friends like that too. In any case, I'd be annoyed simply because he didn't tell you. When guys omit basic info about their plans it means they feel guilty and they probably feel guilty because they know their chick "friend" wants them. But they like the attention, even if they wouldn't do anything with the other girl. Doesn't mean she wouldn't try to manipulate him. Some girls really don't care if a guy has a GF and they will try anything. So unless they were like BFs4ever or some crap then they don't need to be having movie nights alone...even then..Joey&Dawson comes to mind there.
Donald Draper.niketalk		#42	[-]
Posts: 1051 (06/16/2009 2:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I don't see why a trusting woman in a healthy relationship would have a problem with this.
jus4lafs		#43	[-]
Posts: 137 (06/16/2009 2:25 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	McCaining Around wrote: idontknowwhat wrote: insane man hating woman who recently had her heart broken and lost all trust in men. Sounds like me Me too
Alex the Goob		#44	[-]
Posts: 50278 (06/16/2009 2:26 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Ask to go with him one time and see what's up. If there's awkwardness from one or both of them...don't be all weird and clingy, just hang out and check out the scene.
99thdegree		#45	[-]
Posts: 28975 (06/16/2009 2:27 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	KristinWasBanned wrote: Most of my closest friends are guys, and we regularly do stuff like that. Most of them aren't in serious relationships, but even at times when they were, we'd still hang out one on one. Yeah. I don't think hanging out with another girl one on one should be an issue in a relationship. I have a lot of guy friends and hang out with them one on one. Its not romantic.. its just hanging out with a friend. Luckily I'm cool with their girlfriends so its never been an issue.
texaskiwi85		#46	[-]
Posts: 7013 (06/16/2009 2:29 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Yes, especially because I am movie queen.
Agent M		#47	[-]
Posts: 2982 (06/16/2009 2:32 PM) Biggest Health Nut '08 Most Artistic '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Alex the Goob wrote: Ask to go with him one time and see what's up. If there's awkwardness from one or both of them...don't be all weird and clingy, just hang out and check out the scene. it's not a regular thing, he says it didn't even happen last night, he came home and did nothing.
Agent M		#48	[-]
Posts: 2983 (06/16/2009 2:33 PM) Biggest Health Nut '08 Most Artistic '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	99thdegree wrote: KristinWasBanned wrote: Most of my closest friends are guys, and we regularly do stuff like that. Most of them aren't in serious relationships, but even at times when they were, we'd still hang out one on one. Yeah. I don't think hanging out with another girl one on one should be an issue in a relationship. I have a lot of guy friends and hang out with them one on one. Its not romantic.. its just hanging out with a friend. Luckily I'm cool with their girlfriends so its never been an issue. yeah, I mean... he has female friends and I'm ok with that of course, he even speaks to his ex-girlfriends still. it's the whole... not telling me, and her being some random ass chick I didn't know that bothered me. but, he says it didn't happen, so yeah.
Tachiwaka13		#49	[-]
Posts: 26542 (06/16/2009 4:14 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	99thdegree wrote: KristinWasBanned wrote: Most of my closest friends are guys, and we regularly do stuff like that. Most of them aren't in serious relationships, but even at times when they were, we'd still hang out one on one. Yeah. I don't think hanging out with another girl one on one should be an issue in a relationship. I have a lot of guy friends and hang out with them one on one. Its not romantic.. its just hanging out with a friend. Luckily I'm cool with their girlfriends so its never been an issue. Buuut on the flip side, how do you know their girlfriends aren't slightly worried or nervous about you hanging out with their boyfriend? In this case, you're the girl the OP is worried about
bigredmunkeebutt		#50	[-]
Posts: 13617 (06/16/2009 4:17 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Are you specifically NOT invited? Or are you 500 miles away, or something? Is this some childhood friend, that he's known forever, or some skank he just met at the bar last week? And, are we talking horror, comedy, or porn? There are extenuating circumstances, regarding this question!
jc4me18		#51	[-]
Posts: 13954 (06/16/2009 4:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Buuut on the flip side, how do you know their girlfriends aren't slightly worried or nervous about you hanging out with their boyfriend? In this case, you're the girl the OP is worried about Yeah I agree with this. Just because their gfs appear "OK" with it doesn't mean it doesn't bother them. They might be cool chicks and not let it show it bothers them, but it could irritate them internally. My exbf used to be "friends" with tons of girls, but most of these girls LIKED HIM. It wasn't a platonic situation ever. In HS one of his girl "friends" used to like stalk him around. It was so ridiculous. I didn't tell him he couldn't talk to her, but it annoyed me still. But then again I am of the firm belief that guys and girls can never be just friends. I have never been JUST friends with a dude...there is always some issue. Either I have a thing for the guy or the guy has a thing for me or the guy just wants to get laid/make out..
FunSized		#52	[-]
Posts: 2400 (06/16/2009 4:22 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	This reminds me, I once had a friend who told my boyfriend that everybody, including me, were going to be meeting at her house for movie night. My boyfriend went to her house, and the only person there was her with a blanket in the dark. She told him that nobody else could make it (that's usually what happens when you don't call anybody else) and that he was welcome to stay. That pissed me off to no end.
shoebaby1		#53	[-]
Posts: 28719 (06/16/2009 4:23 PM) Most Dramatic JJBer '08 Most Likely to be Online '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I would be more than annoyed, I would bust in on them swinging.
OhManImScrewed		#54	[-]
Posts: 16871 (06/16/2009 4:49 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	It sounds like it's a non-issue anymore, but it would definitely depend on who the girl is for me. I REALLY want to be trusting, but I KNOW stuff goes down between "just friends" sometimes. I've been there!
thedon03		#55	[-]
Posts: 13744 (06/16/2009 5:05 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	FunSized wrote: This reminds me, I once had a friend who told my boyfriend that everybody, including me, were going to be meeting at her house for movie night. My boyfriend went to her house, and the only person there was her with a blanket in the dark. She told him that nobody else could make it (that's usually what happens when you don't call anybody else) and that he was welcome to stay. That pissed me off to no end.
kubbies		#56	[-]
Posts: 443 (06/16/2009 5:15 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	he's fucking her. or wants to. why would he watch movies with her when he could be watching them with you? duhhhhhhh
sunkissedbrunie		#57	[-]
Posts: 36 (06/16/2009 5:46 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	it depends on how long he's known her. if it's like a childhood friend who he's known forever than I'd be more okay with it if he told me about it and I knew her. But if it was some girl he just met or met after he met me, I would be pretty skeptical. He should be having movie nights with you!!!!! Maybe even ask to tag along just once and try to feel out their body language. Usually you can sense tension or awkwardness in pretty much any situation and follow your instincts!
lacheysgurl		#58	[-]
Posts: 6497 (06/16/2009 5:51 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Why aren't you invited, sounds like sex night not "movie night" to me
elainakicksbutt		#59	[-]
Posts: 493 (06/16/2009 5:59 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	everyone knows "let's watch a move" means "were gonna do it"
Agent M		#60	[-]
Posts: 2984 (06/16/2009 8:04 PM) Biggest Health Nut '08 Most Artistic '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	he's not fucking her. he didn't DO it, she was running her mouth, he stayed home and did nothing. I need to edit this post I guess!

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