OMG that red flag gif could be useful in SO many posts. Including this one.
Would this upset you?
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Posts: 4046 (06/15/2009 12:21 PM) |
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Nancy White |
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Posts: 2552 (06/15/2009 12:24 PM) |
"that's a dealbreaker, ladies!"
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magnoliam |
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Posts: 4335 (06/15/2009 2:08 PM) |
Nancy White wrote:this guy is making you talk like a crazy person. You have sexually transmitted crazy mouth. Deal breaker. |
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Yeah Christianne |
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Posts: 6643 (06/15/2009 2:19 PM) |
Hello, obvious. I believe you're missing the signs!
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Vectorious |
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Posts: 578 (06/15/2009 2:22 PM) |
Yeah Christianne wrote:She's not missing them. She just doesn't want to see them. |
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SassyLassy24 |
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Posts: 1284 (06/15/2009 2:27 PM) |
Cheating and lying, what more do you need from him to know he's a jerk? Crying and saying he loves you too much to leave is manipulation at it's best.
Actions speak louder than words honey.
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Starlette85 |
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Posts: 11021 (06/15/2009 2:39 PM) |
I know that you all are right and I'm going to have to break up with him. It just hurts so bad because I love him.
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lovedlzrd |
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Posts: 157 (06/15/2009 2:47 PM) |
Momobobo wrote: |
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kastang |
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Posts: 5 (06/15/2009 2:49 PM) |
SassyLassy24 wrote: Yeah, the crying just sets everything off. He wants you to feel sorry for him and turn the tables on you to make you feel like you're the one who's wrong. Unless, crying just part of his personality. |
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Starlette85 |
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Posts: 11022 (06/15/2009 2:54 PM) |
The tattoo is on the back of her neck.
He did try to turn it around on me, heh. |
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kastang |
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Posts: 7 (06/15/2009 3:10 PM) |
It also depends on your approach to the situation too. If you came to him calmly and he still acted like that anyway, that's a HUGE red flag. There's
no reason for him to get so defensive unless something is wrong.
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Mrs Right Now |
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Posts: 27763 (06/15/2009 3:14 PM) |
Is this the guy you cheated on your husband with or another guy? I'm only asking because I vaguely remember the posts & if it is the guy you cheated on
with wasn't there issues with you with this dude previously??
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maifanluva00 |
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Posts: 5560 (06/15/2009 4:02 PM) |
Starlette85 wrote:Well, he obviously doesn't love you. |
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Spamster |
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Posts: 3122 (06/15/2009 4:54 PM) |
So wait, you cheated on your husband? Not trying to shit stir here but was this all after your baby died? Then you had to ask JJB to bury your dad because you
couldn't afford it? In all honesty, you may be having some emotional issues because of all the crap you've had to go through.
 Seek some counseling.
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erin2283 |
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Posts: 15999 (06/15/2009 5:07 PM) |
I wouldn't be upset about the tattoo, but I would be upset by the broken promise and going behind my back.
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Courtney Love1 |
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Posts: 6312 (06/15/2009 5:09 PM) |
HOW did you find out from her?
Are you two friends or something and have conversations all the time about him? |
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dear lady |
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Posts: 39588 (06/15/2009 6:14 PM) |
If he cheated on me with her I'd feel a little upset, but at the same time if he did that why are you still with him? Did you realize he was over her and
it was just a mistake or were you just dumb? (No offense.) If you were having a momentary lapse of reason I'd be worried and I'd suggest breaking it
off with him... Maybe not right away but bring it up during a conversation and get it out in the open. She obviously has something for him and has enough faith
in him to let him give her a frickin tattoo, so I'm kind of imagining two people who are pretty connected----probably in more ways than one. But at the
same time she must be his ex-WIFE for a reason and maybe they're just friends. The tattooing itself isn't that big of a deal but the other stuff mixed
in is weird.
You definitely need to talk to him about this and THEN evaluate the situation. |
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VelvetRope11 |
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Posts: 30706 (06/15/2009 6:19 PM) |
If there's no trust a relationship, it will eventually make you and you alone miserable due to what you feel because of the mistrust.
The cheating at the beginning of a relationship, with hard work and a rebuilding of trust through pure honesty (even when that honesty hurts at times), can be forgiven. HOWEVER, the fact that he still has contact with his ex wife/woman he cheated on you with is a big fucking red flag. |
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Samantha James |
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Posts: 13979 (06/15/2009 6:21 PM) |
Starlette85 wrote:He's a cheater and he's a liar. Any more questions? |
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sunkissedbrunie |
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Posts: 27 (06/15/2009 7:47 PM) |
I agree with everyone else saying that if you don't trust him, and you have damn reason not to, you should dump his ass. there's no trust and he
clearly doesn't understand or care about how you feel and he did this behind your back months ago. what else is he doing behind your back??? he did it
before, he will do it again, and if you keep taking him back that will condone the behavior and he will continue lying and cheating. you are going to drive
yourself crazy not being able to trust him.
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