lack of preperation for stuff.
We're going on a trip this Thursday to Chicago. It's not just him and I, but us 2, my sister and her boyfriend and like 10 other people total... some who are riding with us and others who we're meeting there. This thing has been planned since January and the WHOLE time he said we could take this big van his dad has cos it'll fit a good 8 people in it and drive it there. K, so last week he said we wouldn't be able to cos it needed a few things fixed but one of his friends said he'd be able to borrow some SUV his mom has and no worries.
Nope, come tonight... we have no vehicle to get there. He wants to take my car (a Honda) and I told him no. For one, the more mileage I put on the more my insurance goes up and at the moment I don't need any other additional costs in my life (I just bought a house) and just won't do that. So now he's all mad at me for it and I'm like, um... you had a vehicle for us since Day 1, you figure out how we're getting there. He just doesn't get it.
He's one of those people who doesn't plan ahead and I'm one of those people who likes to know what's going on. I've petty much planned our trip so we know what trains/busses to get one when and where so we don't have to pay a fortune in taxis, and he acts like it's this HUGE thing that I'm suckering him in to. And of course he complains about it to his friends, in front of me, yet says he doesn't care what we do so of course I'm doing what I want. I know guys are like this but seriously!! The last guy I was serious with was a total planner just like me and we would have had this figured out AGES ago. I know every guy is different, but it really bothers me. His mom says he's just like his dad cos his mom is just like me. This is gonna be a long relationship/trip. Ha!
We're going on a trip this Thursday to Chicago. It's not just him and I, but us 2, my sister and her boyfriend and like 10 other people total... some who are riding with us and others who we're meeting there. This thing has been planned since January and the WHOLE time he said we could take this big van his dad has cos it'll fit a good 8 people in it and drive it there. K, so last week he said we wouldn't be able to cos it needed a few things fixed but one of his friends said he'd be able to borrow some SUV his mom has and no worries.
Nope, come tonight... we have no vehicle to get there. He wants to take my car (a Honda) and I told him no. For one, the more mileage I put on the more my insurance goes up and at the moment I don't need any other additional costs in my life (I just bought a house) and just won't do that. So now he's all mad at me for it and I'm like, um... you had a vehicle for us since Day 1, you figure out how we're getting there. He just doesn't get it.
He's one of those people who doesn't plan ahead and I'm one of those people who likes to know what's going on. I've petty much planned our trip so we know what trains/busses to get one when and where so we don't have to pay a fortune in taxis, and he acts like it's this HUGE thing that I'm suckering him in to. And of course he complains about it to his friends, in front of me, yet says he doesn't care what we do so of course I'm doing what I want. I know guys are like this but seriously!! The last guy I was serious with was a total planner just like me and we would have had this figured out AGES ago. I know every guy is different, but it really bothers me. His mom says he's just like his dad cos his mom is just like me. This is gonna be a long relationship/trip. Ha!
We were two very different people. And trust
me, if you feel irritated with his ways now, it will not get better, because he's not going to change. I learned that the hard way.
