Well do you?
Do you hold grudges?
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 Purplelilac82 |
Do you hold grudges? |
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Posts: 14451 (06/07/2009 10:08 PM) |
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 LuvBug |
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Posts: 2541 (06/07/2009 10:09 PM) |
Yes
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Alicia |
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Posts: 81566 (06/07/2009 10:09 PM) Funniest JJBer '04 |
Not really.
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babiephatxx |
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Posts: 27942 (06/07/2009 10:10 PM) |
no
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JaimJaim |
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Posts: 24224 (06/07/2009 10:11 PM) |
Yes.
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erin2283 |
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Posts: 15976 (06/07/2009 10:12 PM) |
Yup, I do.
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HumpThatStage |
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Posts: 15730 (06/07/2009 10:13 PM) Best Critic '05 |
Yes
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Purplelilac82 |
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Posts: 14452 (06/07/2009 10:15 PM) |
When do you guys let go of the grudge?
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Samantha James |
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Posts: 13708 (06/07/2009 10:17 PM) |
Hell yeah. It's my specialty.
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CoverGaL86 |
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Posts: 7162 (06/07/2009 10:17 PM) |
Yea, but its only to people who messed me up real bad though. I don't think I ever let them go, since they hurt me that bad, and its not something I can
ever forgive them for.
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Dylishis |
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Posts: 10495 (06/07/2009 10:19 PM) Most Outspoken '08
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I do harbor resentment, yes.
A grudge is something I feel like is pent up vengeance...like, you plan on ACTING on it and legitimizing your feelings. I
don't really do that. I do tend to sit on beef though and that's not good. I'm working on it though. 
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mshinda |
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Posts: 9565 (06/07/2009 10:20 PM) |
I try my damnedest not to and have put in real, conscience dedicated work on my character not to do so. Can't say I've been totally successful. But
I've gotten better. Most I let go of rather quickly. Some just linger. Like these couple a bitches I wanna choke right now
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freebus18 |
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Posts: 18465 (06/07/2009 10:21 PM) |
yes until I get an apology then I'm over it
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YodaManSkeeto |
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Posts: 2013 (06/07/2009 10:23 PM) JJB Therapist '07 |
Not often but when I do...
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LauritaK |
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Posts: 56210 (06/07/2009 10:24 PM) Best Current Events
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Yes, I'm a Capricorn and I am very stubborn. I haven't spoken to my dad over six months, and my mom is about to be put on ignore as well. I can not
stand being deceived.
But on the flip, I am told I'm a very loyal friend |
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marlsj |
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Posts: 11329 (06/07/2009 10:27 PM) |
No.
I get even then I forget about it. |
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LauritaK |
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Posts: 56211 (06/07/2009 10:28 PM) Best Current Events
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Dylishis wrote: You're too nice, sometimes I get on that Beatrix Kiddo shit
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Purplelilac82 |
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Posts: 14456 (06/07/2009 10:30 PM) |
LauritaK wrote:  You on that?
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Dylishis |
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Posts: 10500 (06/07/2009 10:32 PM) Most Outspoken '08
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Beatrix Kiddo.
Sometimes I feel like doing that, but it's not in me to do that to friends and family. They are my weakness. Random asses off the
street? Don't give a fuck about it but those close to me, are the only ones that can get under my skin so I have a soft spot for them. I'm not good at
being conniving, I'm a blow for blow type of person. If you 'get away' with something then it's pretty much a done deal. I'll just be mad
about it until I decide to get over it or wash my hands of the relationship or situation.
But I feel like the older I get, I'm changing and growing more...  lol I don't know. I've been in a IDGAF state, lately. I'm more likely
to cuss a friend or relative out or throw something at them.
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Courtney Love1 |
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Posts: 6170 (06/07/2009 10:36 PM) |
Dylishis wrote: This is me too. I'm the damn QUEEN of built-up resentment. 
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adgirlie77 |
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Posts: 645 (06/07/2009 10:38 PM) |
i try not to, but i can't help it.
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