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CandaceLeigh	Friend caught boyfriend on dating site...what would you do?	Lead	[-]
Posts: 7867 (06/02/2009 12:28 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	So my friend and I were at the Gym this evening and she was really quiet so finally I asked what is wrong. She told me she was going to check her email today and her boyfriend accidently left his email logged in. She was going to sign out and she noticed that there was a "Welcome Email" from an online dating site. So as curious as she was she clicked on it and saw that it was a registration email. She proceeded to then log into this dating site with his information and saw his profile said he was looking for someone to hang out with and was listed as single. She was freaking out as she didn't know if she should approach him on the topic cause then he will turn around and get back she was snooping or should she just lay low as according to his profile he hasn't contacted anyone. I told her I had no clue cause thats a sticky situation to be in, but I know you girls are smart and full of advice.
Anastasia Beaverhausen		#1	[-]
Posts: 69 (06/02/2009 12:29 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	It would be over either way. What's the difference how she found out?
AudaciousAudrey		#2	[-]
Posts: 26317 (06/02/2009 12:30 AM) Biggest Know It All '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	He will lie to her about it and say he was looking for someone or doing it for a friend or something equally stupid but she will believe it anyway because she wants to believe it. The best thing for her to do is just break up with him. He's already unhappy whether he's discussed it with her or not, and he's clearly not trustworthy. He will just lie to her and try to manipulate the situation so that she feels like the bad guy for even glancing at his email in the first place.
GettinHotWithJC		#3	[-]
Posts: 40887 (06/02/2009 12:31 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Make a new e-mail and ask him out. If he replies and goes to meet the "date". He's in for a real surprise.
June 2010		#4	[-]
Posts: 1147 (06/02/2009 12:31 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Kick him the curb immediately. If he is looking, he obviously intends to buy.
oliverbandit		#5	[-]
Posts: 7481 (06/02/2009 12:32 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Something similar happened to a friend of mine. She confronted her fiance, he admitted it, and they still got married.
Dylishis		#6	[-]
Posts: 10223 (06/02/2009 12:33 AM) Most Outspoken '08 JJBer of the Year '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I don't see the sticky situation. She should probably try to begin her healing process and get ready to tell him to GTFO out of her life. But...if she's gonna listen to his excuses and allow him to turn it around on her, then she could always go that route.
DoesThatSparkle		#7	[-]
Posts: 2426 (06/02/2009 12:33 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	GettinHotWithJC wrote: Make a new e-mail and ask him out. If he replies and goes to meet the "date". He's in for a real surprise. Ooooh, this would be hilarious. I recommend this approach, and then dump his ass.
Mistress Darcy		#8	[-]
Posts: 9512 (06/02/2009 12:34 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	AudaciousAudrey wrote: He will lie to her about it and say he was looking for someone or doing it for a friend or something equally stupid but she will believe it anyway because she wants to believe it. Pretty much.
ipodconga		#9	[-]
Posts: 14469 (06/02/2009 12:34 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I swear this happened on JJB last year... it got to be a really long thread and had a really good outcome... the girl PWNED her cheating boyfriend.
jaythen		#10	[-]
Posts: 85 (06/02/2009 12:34 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	GettinHotWithJC wrote: Make a new e-mail and ask him out. If he replies and goes to meet the "date". He's in for a real surprise.
freebus18		#11	[-]
Posts: 18421 (06/02/2009 12:35 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I would set up a fake account and try to get in contact with him to see if he takes the bait
photobooth4		#12	[-]
Posts: 12343 (06/02/2009 12:35 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	She could have a friend/you sign up for the site and claim the friend just happened to "find" him. That's kind of just adding to the lies though. Either way she needs to dump him.
raratwentyfour		#13	[-]
Posts: 2892 (06/02/2009 12:36 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	GettinHotWithJC wrote: Make a new e-mail and ask him out. If he replies and goes to meet the "date". He's in for a real surprise. Awesome suggestion!
x Pahk The Cah x		#14	[-]
Posts: 15301 (06/02/2009 12:37 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	GettinHotWithJC wrote: Make a new e-mail and ask him out. If he replies and goes to meet the "date". He's in for a real surprise. I like this idea. Even if you don't go and "meet" him, you could see what his intentions were just through email conversation.
CandaceLeigh		#15	[-]
Posts: 7868 (06/02/2009 12:37 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	photobooth4 wrote: She could have a friend/you sign up for the site and claim the friend just happened to "find" him. That's kind of just adding to the lies though. Either way she needs to dump him. I think she was kinda hinting at this but I have a boyfriend so that woulnd't look too good! I told her that she should do what she feels is best. She was telling me how much she loves him and she dosen't want to believe this is happening. I told her just be safe and I love her no matter what.
jawnyquest.niketalk		#16	[-]
Posts: 1059 (06/02/2009 12:37 AM) Best Use of Emoticon award '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore
RedLampDistrict		#17	[-]
Posts: 9152 (06/02/2009 12:38 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	ipodconga wrote: I swear this happened on JJB last year... it got to be a really long thread and had a really good outcome... the girl PWNED her cheating boyfriend. Yeah I totally remember this, too. And she did a play-by-play for JJB.
Maurysluver		#18	[-]
Posts: 1123 (06/02/2009 12:41 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	raratwentyfour wrote: GettinHotWithJC wrote: Make a new e-mail and ask him out. If he replies and goes to meet the "date". He's in for a real surprise. Awesome suggestion! I'm usually against sneaky things such as this but...she should do this
Juicy07		#19	[-]
Posts: 6565 (06/02/2009 12:41 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	GettinHotWithJC wrote: Make a new e-mail and ask him out. If he replies and goes to meet the "date". He's in for a real surprise. Tell her to do this! She needs to break it off with him anyway, so why not have some fun with it.
Charrm		#20	[-]
Posts: 10354 (06/02/2009 1:17 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Maurysluver wrote: raratwentyfour wrote: GettinHotWithJC wrote: Make a new e-mail and ask him out. If he replies and goes to meet the "date". He's in for a real surprise. Awesome suggestion! I'm usually against sneaky things such as this but...she should do this why should she waste her time on doing something so juvenile? it's only going to prolong her pain. she knows what's going on, so why not just leave it alone? this will only draw things out.

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