I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
my moms gone...
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Posts: 5084 (05/26/2009 2:25 AM) |
 I am sooooo sorry
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dear lady |
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Posts: 39449 (05/26/2009 2:30 AM) |
Jesus I'm so, so sorry. I have had a fear of death since I was a child and I've learned to just block it from my brain, but the thought of my parents
dying terrifies me beyond belief. I honestly don't know how I'll be able to move on without them and I really hope that I die before them...
I lost my Uncle last week (he was only 52 and we still don't know how) and it's been so fucking hard watching my mom have to go through the loss of her brother (who she was close to). I can't... I just can't even fathom what you're going through. I know what it's like to lose someone close now but... I can't even say it now. I am so, so, so sorry; my heart aches so much for you. I really hope you get through this time quickly, and if it's any consolation, I doubt your mother would want you to be so sad over her death. That's just about the only thought I can have that makes me feel a little better about the situation. Death is inevitable and there is nothing you can do about the past or could have done to prevent it so you can't keep thinking thoughts like that. Remember what good times you got to share with her and carry her in your heart for the rest of your life. That's the only way she can live on.
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05/26/2009 2:34 AM.
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Ease Your Mind |
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Posts: 1791 (05/26/2009 2:34 AM) |
I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Posts: 8061 (05/26/2009 2:38 AM) |
im so sorry to hear this
 how awful, this must be the worst thing ever, losing your mom
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Posts: 28895 (05/26/2009 2:41 AM) |
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure this is a very difficult time.
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Sarika Chan |
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Posts: 429 (05/26/2009 2:54 AM) |
I'm so sorry.
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Posts: 4468 (05/26/2009 3:19 AM) |
I'm so sorry.
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Posts: 7017 (05/26/2009 3:47 AM) |
Aww. I'm so sorry to hear that. That's one of my biggest fears and I honestly cannot even imagine what you're going through right now. I'm so
sorry.
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Posts: 2258 (05/26/2009 3:52 AM) |
BatmanNANANA wrote:I believe that things like this happen, since I've both seen and felt the presence of my great-grandmother at different times throughout my entire life. She died when I was an infant, and I didn't even know who the lady was that I sometimes saw, until I saw a picture of her when I was 11 or 12 or so. She knows you loved her, and she's free of pain now. |
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Posts: 1468 (05/26/2009 4:07 AM) |
I'm so sorry.
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Posts: 21471 (05/26/2009 4:33 AM) |
I am so so very sorry. I wish there was something I could say that could help find a place to put your pain but only time can do that. It never goes away but
you do find a place to put it inside of yourself. My heart is with you.
*From a mom w/ chronic head pain who hopes her only son never ends up in a similar situation* Hang in there. |
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Posts: 8095 (05/26/2009 7:37 AM) |
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Runice2K |
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Posts: 643 (05/26/2009 8:30 AM) |
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're in my prayers.
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konablueskye |
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Posts: 1406 (05/26/2009 8:39 AM) |
I'm so sorry.
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skyblue87 |
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Posts: 302 (05/26/2009 8:41 AM) |
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I definitely believe that spirits can visit you. My niece passed away last year and I was torn up. She was a like my daughter. I absolutely 100% believe that she helped me get through it. One day about 2 weeks after she passed I was sitting on the couch. I was home by myself. I was thinking about her and asked if she was there to please give me some sort of sign. Needless to say, I caught something out of the corner of my eye in the couch. I pulled it out and it was one of her hairbows. One time I was going to go drive but didn't have a CD I wanted to listen to. So I grabbed one that I hadn't listened to in years and didn't even know what was on it. Of course the first song was about somebody dying and trying to get over it. I played the song over and over again, and I told my niece I loved her. One time while I was really upset, it was playing..the track faded in and out. I thought it was my speakers, but nope. The song continued to play perfectly. There are several things like that that have happened. I know right now it seems like you won't make it through. I thought the same thing. But be strong. Your mom is watching over you. |
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abby since 1984 |
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Posts: 51612 (05/26/2009 8:50 AM) |
I'm really sorry.
some stupid ass dr prescribed her 140 dilaudids.. and said she can take 1-2 every 2 hours?~?!?! This is actually an appropriate schedule. I see it a lot. It may have just been completely too much for your mom.
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Posts: 1642 (05/26/2009 8:54 AM) |
I am so sorry for your loss. I believe that energy is energy and just because she is gone in the physical sense, she is stil with you and will always be. Talk to her, find comfort in it. She'll always be there for you and she will be there for your wedding and see your children- you just won't see her. Believe in it.
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Posts: 62 (05/26/2009 9:11 AM) |
I'm so sorry.
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Posts: 9864 (05/26/2009 9:25 AM) |
I am so sorry for your loss! There is nothing worse than losing someone you love.
I believe that she's in a better place, and will watch over you, so you can find peace. My heart goes out to you and your family
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