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Posts: 45 (04/20/2009 2:08 PM) |
hooking up only means kissing if you're in middle school. if you're over the age of 16 you should not be using hooking up as a term for making out.
I'm 20. If i "hook up" with a girl it means we fucked. |
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AlwaysSomeoneElse |
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Posts: 2227 (04/20/2009 2:11 PM) |
Hooking up is a deliberately vague term. It should mean anything you want it to. I think it's more awkward to describe what you did when you didn't
have sex than to just say "we slept together." It's not like you're going to say "yeah we dry humped a lot. Lots of neck kissing. I felt
his dick over his pants."
 No, you just say you "hooked up."
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Mistress Darcy |
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Posts: 8645 (04/20/2009 2:12 PM) |
AlwaysSomeoneElse wrote:I say made out if we just kissed and maybe some touching. I don't say hooked up because that means sex 
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Posts: 12999 (04/20/2009 2:13 PM)
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AlwaysSomeoneElse wrote:Thank you. Exaaaaactly.
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illbejcsgirlfriend |
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Posts: 18230 (04/20/2009 2:19 PM) |
When people say they hooked up with someone I always assume sex.
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AudaciousAudrey |
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Posts: 24429 (04/20/2009 2:20 PM) Biggest Know It All '09
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AlwaysSomeoneElse wrote:I say we "messed around," and that's usually pretty clear that there was no sex. |
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malism |
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Posts: 4138 (04/20/2009 2:20 PM) |
I assume sex by "hooking up" also so I was soo confused
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elites renee |
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Posts: 21818 (04/20/2009 2:23 PM) |
You guys are good friends, but he hasn't face book friended you? Don't do it.
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jc4me18 |
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Posts: 13637 (04/20/2009 2:23 PM) |
Seems like everyone's definition of this is different. When people I know say "I hooked up with.." it usually means everything but the actual
sex. If they are having sex it's "I'm sleeping with so and so.." or simple "I had sex with.." If all they did was make out they
say "we made out" |
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AlwaysSomeoneElse |
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Posts: 2228 (04/20/2009 2:24 PM) |
 Never, ever would any of my friends assume that me saying I "hooked up" meant I slept with someone. I would say I slept with someone. I guess
it depends on your group of friends...
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SparklyBlonde |
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Posts: 27842 (04/20/2009 2:26 PM) |
I don't understand how you can be comfortable with "hooking up" but not adding each other on facebook. Seems backwards to me.
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katiek123 |
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Posts: 1338 (04/20/2009 2:38 PM) |
Mr. Peepers would be all over this post.
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DoesThatSparkle |
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Posts: 1449 (04/20/2009 2:40 PM) |
SparklyBlonde wrote:Because hooking up doesn't mean you're friends. If 2 people are solely hooking up, they aren't going to be hanging out and introducing each other to friends and family members. They aren't gonna be going to the movies and dinner....that would be dating. This is just hooking up, therefore it's extremely weird to facebook friend each other. Friends do that, not hookups. |
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Ninido |
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Posts: 6419 (04/20/2009 2:51 PM) |
I don't say 'hooked up' but if I did - it would mean sex. And if any of my friends say it - its for sex.
And ffs - if you're doing whatever w/ the dude, you shouldn't be embarrassed or whatever to add him on FB. it's facebook, ffs. |
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SparklyBlonde |
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Posts: 27844 (04/20/2009 2:52 PM) |
DoesThatSparkle wrote:But most people "friend" just about anyone on facebook. It doesn't necessarily mean that your close or dating or anything.
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DoesThatSparkle |
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Posts: 1451 (04/20/2009 2:53 PM) |
SparklyBlonde wrote:I know, it means YOU'RE FRIENDS. They are obviously not friends, they are hookups. |
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SparklyBlonde |
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Posts: 27845 (04/20/2009 2:56 PM) |
Actually the OP said that they ARE friends.
TeenyL02 wrote: |
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DoesThatSparkle |
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Posts: 1453 (04/20/2009 3:08 PM) |
SparklyBlonde wrote:She thinks they're friends. By the way she described the whole situation though.....trust me they are not friends. If they were, they would have already added each other on facebook. And I don't hookup with my friends. They're definitely not friends. |
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TeenyL02 |
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Posts: 13003 (04/20/2009 3:14 PM)
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DoesThatSparkle wrote: Good point.
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lance is purralicious |
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Posts: 15238 (04/20/2009 3:33 PM) |
AlwaysSomeoneElse wrote:This, exactly. I am not going to say I "made out" with someone when everything BUT sex happened, and I'm also not going to get
into details.
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