What's your background?
I'm really annoyed at my mom.
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Posts: 3580 (04/19/2009 11:27 PM) |
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Jrtismine |
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Posts: 22842 (04/19/2009 11:27 PM) |
but would you be staying in the same room as him? is that the issue? i'm not sure i get what the big deal is?
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 Courtney Love1 |
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Posts: 5159 (04/19/2009 11:29 PM) |
Seeing as you say both sets of parents are 'super-Catholic', is the issue that they think you'll be having pre-marital sex while in Florida?
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Scorpio86 |
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Posts: 148 (04/19/2009 11:29 PM) |
kellynn34 wrote: Thanks...I'm talking to my boyfriend right now, who also has a strict-type of mom (although she's all for the idea, but she enjoys traveling when she can unlike my parents), but he thinks she will turn around so I am hoping he's right. My boyfriend is so amazing and smart, and I know they really like him, but it's more that I'm offended at them for my boyfriend's sake. Even though he's not offended by her thoughts. |
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MandsLB8 |
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Posts: 4308 (04/19/2009 11:30 PM) |
I'm 22 years old, married and have a baby and a career.
Why are you asking permission from your parents? You're an adult. |
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TheFreshPrincess |
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Posts: 1607 (04/19/2009 11:30 PM) |
Scorpio86 wrote:You see, until you have your own place, you can do what you want. But if you just go on this trip anyway and defy your parents, you risk them changing the locks when you return 
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Scorpio86 |
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Posts: 149 (04/19/2009 11:31 PM) |
MandsLB8 wrote:My mom was exactly like you at our age as well. So that's why her reasoning doesn't make sense! |
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JtzCrunkster81 |
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Posts: 17793 (04/19/2009 11:31 PM) |
MandsLB8 wrote:Everyone's different. |
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Courtney Love1 |
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Posts: 5160 (04/19/2009 11:32 PM) |
You see, until you have your own place, you can do what you want. But if you just go on this trip anyway and defy your parents, you risk them changing the locks when you return ^ 
Unfortunately, when someone else is paying for your way in life, they get to tell you what to do. Sad, but true. |
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Scorpio86 |
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Posts: 150 (04/19/2009 11:32 PM) |
Well I've been living at school for four years now, so it doesn't make sense that they're worried about us being alone, since they know I can have
people over whenever I want. I'm Eastern-European in background, American in nationality.
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Scorpio86 |
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Posts: 151 (04/19/2009 11:34 PM) |
Courtney Love1 wrote:Trust me, I know this. The locks won't be changed though. That's one thing I know they won't do. |
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Courtney Love1 |
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Posts: 5161 (04/19/2009 11:34 PM) |
Okay, I feel like we're trying to pull information out of you by force here.
Please tell us EXACTLY what the problem here is. Are they afraid you and he are having pre-marital sex? Are they pissed that you would be celebrating your graduation with him instead of with them? Etc. I'm not understanding just what is the issue here. |
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Scorpio86 |
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Posts: 152 (04/19/2009 11:37 PM) |
Courtney Love1 wrote:I don't understand either which is why I'm upset with her! Being European, she has never had that talk with me. And it's too late for it anyway. Also, my sister has prom that night so we are not celebrating that night. She graduates a few weeks after me, and I told my mom I would like to have a small, joint, casual backyard bbq to celebrate. My mom thinks she doesn't deserve a party, but I disagree. |
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TR2119 |
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Posts: 10470 (04/19/2009 11:42 PM) |
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Courtney Love1 |
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Posts: 5163 (04/19/2009 11:47 PM) |
Dude, I'm still completely unclear as to what you're pissed about then.
If all she did is make a comment about the trip, why are you acting as if she's FORBIDDEN you to go? Has she actually come right out and say anything like "Since we gave you that money, we're telling you that you can't go with him to Florida."? If not, then just go, for cryin' out loud. She'll get over her dissaproval of it sooner or later. I feel like this being pissed on your part is more about you than it is with her. Because based on your original post, all she's done thus far is make a snarky comment about your future with your boyfriend. It sounds like you're afraid of her being dissapointed in you or something. |
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Scorpio86 |
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Posts: 153 (04/19/2009 11:49 PM) |
Courtney Love1 wrote:Well yeah that's basically it I guess. I don't want her to be disappointed in me. Lame, but that's just me I guess. She definitely did not say "No, absolutely not." You're right. Thank you. |
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Smallville78 |
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Posts: 7096 (04/19/2009 11:59 PM) |
well you are an adult and you dont need there permission to go on a trip. they may be super religious or something but that should stop you from doing what you
want to do, just tell them sorry you are not going to stop living your life based on their beleives, i mean its just a vacation
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