be a woman, the person they marry isn't considered gay or bi? How is that?
So if someone is born a male and then gets surgery to
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Posts: 32406 (04/13/2009 4:16 PM)
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Probably because in every way they are legally a woman. It's hard to wrap your head around. I still haven't done it. That's the same question I
kept asking.
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Posts: 1772 (04/13/2009 4:19 PM) |
 It seems like most guys are all weird about it even if the person looks like a woman, and has had the surgery forever ago. Just the mere fact that the
woman was born a man seems to freak out straight guys... Guys are weird.
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Posts: 32407 (04/13/2009 4:21 PM)
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HAhahha, most guys are SO not comfortable with that. I think that's why most Trans people date others who have gone through the same thing.
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Posts: 4846 (04/13/2009 4:24 PM) |
I just can't see a completely straight man being okay with the fact he is still technically sleeping with a man, or someone who used to be a man.
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Posts: 14401 (04/13/2009 4:29 PM) |
BatmanNANANA wrote: Genetically a man and physically a woman. That's really the issue. |
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Posts: 1773 (04/13/2009 4:30 PM) |
BatmanNANANA wrote: Exactly, maybe the guy knows he is gay inside but doesn't really want to say it? Who knows... |
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Posts: 4850 (04/13/2009 4:31 PM) |
Trutome wrote:Maybe this is as close to being gay as he will ever be able to accept. haha. You talkin' about anyone in particular? Or is this just a random situation? |
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Posts: 1774 (04/13/2009 4:35 PM) |
Oh I was watching Tyra and that girl Isis is getting married to a guy, and he says he is in a completely heterosexual relationship. I was thinking "no
you're not" lol
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Posts: 32410 (04/13/2009 4:38 PM)
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It's not really that black and white, if she's had the surgery, she's 100% a woman. She he could be REALLY straight, there's NO part of her
that he can see and relate to a male, except for dna, which he can't see.
So he COULD be 100% straight. Who knows.
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Posts: 1775 (04/13/2009 4:41 PM) |
Thats true, he said that when they met although she didn't have the surgery yet she was always a women in his eyes. So you are right about that.
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Posts: 32412 (04/13/2009 4:44 PM)
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You figure, not of all us look at what's on the side, they look at their heart. (To get all lifetime).
Personally, I don't know if I could be in a relationship with a Trans person, post or pre op. |
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Posts: 1778 (04/13/2009 4:46 PM) |
I don't think I could be with a women turned into a man either. I don't know why...I just don't think I could get over it. How shallow of me.
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Posts: 74634 (04/13/2009 4:46 PM) JJB Debater '03 |
A guy who's actually gay wouldn't be interested in someone with a vagina, genetic or artificial. It's just that a guy who'd be willing to
accept a MTF would have to be open-minded about it, which to some folks, would mean "at least part gay."
Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil has a great peek at that whole thing. Chablis wasn't even interested in getting the operation, but her boyfriend thought she was a woman, and then after he found out she wasn't, was still into her, regardless. |
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Posts: 32413 (04/13/2009 4:48 PM)
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I actually have a gay friend who's married to a ftm transsexual.
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Posts: 1779 (04/13/2009 4:49 PM) |
blairboy wrote: What in the world..  I guess you just fall in love with who you fall in love with!
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Posts: 32414 (04/13/2009 4:50 PM)
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They started dating before he had his surgery, so he still had a vagina. They never did ANYTHING sexual because he let his husband know he was no attracted to
that part of him and the husband was all "NO SHIT!"
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Posts: 21384 (04/13/2009 4:52 PM) |
This reminds me of Nip/Tuck!
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Posts: 2537 (04/13/2009 4:58 PM) |
I know of two male to female trans ... who both have female partners now after the change. The one I know better was actually married to a woman while she was
still a male, but things just didn't work out between them.
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Posts: 1120 (04/13/2009 5:00 PM) |
Trutome wrote: I saw that episode. I agree with you, he said he was in love with "her" for 3 years and she only had the surgey last month, so I say he is gay. Plus I can spot a gay man a mile away and he IS gay. |
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Posts: 5779 (04/13/2009 5:02 PM) |
This is all confusing! lol
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