no, this is it.
then I think about the things I've found out about him and I'm like.. I deserve this, at least.
then I think about the things I've found out about him and I'm like.. I deserve this, at least.
having a guilty conscience sucks.
| Started By | Comment | ||
|---|---|---|---|
 kelli wk |
|||
|
Posts: 16727 (04/05/2009 3:58 PM) |
|
||
 Jonesy |
|||
|
Posts: 4674 (04/05/2009 4:01 PM) |
No there aren't others or no you don't feel guilty about no telling him about the others?
|
||
|
kelli wk |
|||
|
Posts: 16729 (04/05/2009 4:02 PM) |
there was one other dude that I messed around with, but didn't sleep with, and he knows about that. this is the only thing he doesn't know all the
details about (because like I said, he knows there was a FWB, just not that it was this guy)
|
||
|
Jonesy |
|||
|
Posts: 4677 (04/05/2009 4:05 PM) |
So, what do you think you are going to do? At least give it a day or two and see how you feel then. I have always regretted telling a partner about any of my
past experiences.
|
||
|
kelli wk |
|||
|
Posts: 16730 (04/05/2009 4:09 PM) |
I will wait. like I said it'll probably pass soon. this was just the strongest NEED TO TELL HIIIIM feelings I'd had so far.
Edited By: kelli wk
04/05/2009 4:12 PM.
Edited 1 times.
|
||
|
Jonesy |
|||
|
Posts: 4680 (04/05/2009 4:13 PM) |
Hope it all works out. Good luck.
|
||
|
kelli wk |
|||
|
Posts: 16731 (04/05/2009 4:14 PM) |
thank you for talking this out with me! I needed it. the reason I wasn't going to say anything was that last time I got jumped on.
so thanks for not
judging.
|
||
|
VelvetRope11 |
|||
|
Posts: 30416 (04/05/2009 4:18 PM) |
While I agree with others that your past is YOUR past, I think when you start really falling for someone, you want to be able to share all the past with them
and have you accept you for it.
I think it's totally natural to want to tell him, because it was a decision that made you who you are and a decision you learned something from. When you love someone you want to feel like even if truth about your past stings at first, that person is still going to be there for you. Also, that when you love someone the trust you two have is only deepend by the fact that you're going to share parts of your past you yourself don't like. Don't feel too guilty over not telling him, if you don't. But also, don't feel bad if you know you want to tell him and it's going to be a little tough of a conversation. |
||
|
superfantabulous |
|||
|
Posts: 2902 (04/05/2009 4:18 PM) |
The past is the past and as long as you're healthy and he's healthy then I don't see why he should know about your past sex life?
|
||
|
Jonesy |
|||
|
Posts: 4682 (04/05/2009 4:18 PM) |
No problem, you know the JJB. Glad you feel better.
|
||
Quick Reply
