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Posts: 1338 (04/02/2009 10:56 AM) |
celebtrashwhore wrote: hehe |
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 merchasa |
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Posts: 1716 (04/02/2009 1:14 PM) |
wait so he goes online, pays, sees a live girl who is paid to be a ho? or sees a live girl who is just another loser online?
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pryncessnyla |
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Posts: 5303 (04/02/2009 8:03 PM) |
Shy4chey wrote: Thank you. Your husband must see what mine obviously doesn't. |
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Posts: 5304 (04/02/2009 8:04 PM) |
Jonesy wrote:This has to be a guy. Typical response from a man who chooses to speak with his dick. It doesnt matter if I put out everyday or once a damn week. He still does it. |
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Posts: 420 (04/02/2009 8:16 PM) |
Jonesy wrote:I'm going to go with the latter. It doesn't work, they just feel more guilty and/or try to hide it better. Sometimes they end up resenting you for making them feel guilty on top of it, ugh! |
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blessedvirgin |
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Posts: 1358 (04/02/2009 8:25 PM) |
When it comes to doing this kinda of thing with real people, emotional infidelity can happen. Maybe both of you should go see a sex therapist.
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marlsj |
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Posts: 10178 (04/02/2009 8:29 PM) |
ravioli wrote:Your a fucking moron. Why the hell should the OP change? Her husband needs to keep it in his pants. |
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ripcurlgirl83 |
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Posts: 4628 (04/02/2009 8:30 PM) |
thats cheating to me, sorry to hear
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makesJCadjustHisbuttonfly |
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Posts: 14253 (04/02/2009 8:32 PM) |
To me that's just wrong and my husband agrees.
 I'm sorry!!
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PinkynStinky4 |
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Posts: 957 (04/02/2009 8:37 PM) |
pryncessnyla, porn addiction is actually being more recognized as a psychological disease, to the point where it might be included in the next DSM. But because
its not generally viewed as an addiction its going to be even harder for your husband to admit he has a problem than normal. Since he seems to resist
counseling help at this point I would recommend going and talking to someone yourself and ask them for advice on how to deal with him and his addiction. Look
for a professional who has dealt with others like this and can give you realistic expectations.
In addition, it sounds like he has additional issues since he signed up for a dating site. I can imagine things have been sour since then, maybe talking to someone together will help. I'm really sorry to hear about all this. I really hope things work out for the both of you! |
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Posts: 4003 (04/02/2009 8:38 PM) |
makesJCadjustHisbuttonfly wrote: this. and my husband said he would have no problem with me kicking his ass into his mouth if he ever did that. |
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AudaciousAudrey |
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Posts: 23897 (04/02/2009 8:39 PM) Biggest Know It All '09
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The last migration wrote:No shit, genius. I can't believe you though it was a site where people get on cam and talk about their day. Why the hell do you think she is so bothered by it. |
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pryncessnyla |
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Posts: 5305 (04/02/2009 8:59 PM) |
This makes me feel somewhat better knowing that a majority of you think its wrong too. I see now that it's not me either. As far as people saying I am not
giving it up enough this cannot be more false. I talked to my brother in law today about this and he told me he needs to grow the fuck up.
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Lilla Bean |
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Posts: 984 (04/02/2009 9:11 PM) |
Wrong, wrong, wrong. Check his cell phone bills and credit card statements while you're at it.
Seek counseling. If there aren't children involved, cut your ties and move on. |
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Valenka |
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Posts: 178 (04/02/2009 9:55 PM) |
The webcam stuff is one thing, but put together with him posting on a dating site, lying & blaming it on others? Yea. He's looking to get laid outside
the marriage, if he hasn't done it already. Check your financial/cell phone records. You better keep all that stuff as proof in case you divorce.
My ex of 10 years was doing the same type of shit, the hiding and lying about it for at least 4 straight years that I can recall, but like a dummy I trusted him. Then I find out after we separated, he'd been having a fuckathon for a long long time. Keep it all documented. Thats going to be your alimony $$$ if it goes to court. |
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Posts: 2119 (04/02/2009 10:10 PM) |
pryncessnyla wrote:That's fucked up advice. I just want to say that relationships are difficult and you deserve to be respected and that cam thing is not respectful. If this a continual issue it may just be an addiction or - he may feel he's entitled. Either way - he won't change over night because his thinking is all messed up. You need to have a serious talk and he needs to demonstrate some steps to change this - whatever that is.
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Posts: 5306 (04/02/2009 10:15 PM) |
raratwentyfour wrote:Thank you. I appreciate the kind words. His thinking is messed up, he doesn't get it. |
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IzzyRad |
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Posts: 1272 (04/02/2009 10:19 PM) |
I can't believe you talked to your co-workers about this. AWKWARD. Anyway, he sounds like a perv and complete liar.
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