My other housemates don't really care but I always feel like I have to leave my room/play my music loud to drown them out. And I worry about running into one of them naked or semi-naked when they have their bathroom break immediately after.
Is it immature to be
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Posts: 3242 (03/30/2009 1:45 AM) |
annoyed/uncomfortable when I can frequently (at least 2-3 times a week) hear my roommate having sex with her boyfriend?
My other housemates don't really care but I always feel like I have to leave my room/play my music loud to drown them out. And I worry about running into one of them naked or semi-naked when they have their bathroom break immediately after. |
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Posts: 16290 (03/30/2009 1:50 AM) |
No, not at all.
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GettinHotWithJC |
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Posts: 39914 (03/30/2009 1:55 AM) |
No it's not immature at all.
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glowbug narking tony |
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Posts: 4604 (03/30/2009 1:59 AM) |
I don't know about immature but you can always just put on a set of headphones when he comes over, y'know? 2-3 times a week isn't THAT frequent if
you're in a committed, healthy relationship. I mean, I personally would never have sex if my roommate was home but clearly they're not shy about it,
and you can't make them stop, so might as well make it as painless for yourself as possible.
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Posts: 8381 (03/30/2009 2:02 AM) |
Is it normal sex sounds or spanking screaming breaking the bed sounds?
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Posts: 4484 (03/30/2009 7:23 AM) |
Bang on the wall and tell them to keep the volume down! I'd be annoyed also.
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Posts: 12 (03/30/2009 7:30 AM) |
Just throw on some headphones.
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Posts: 11958 (03/30/2009 7:58 AM) |
I don't think it would be a big deal to privately clue her in that they can be heard by other members of the household, she might not realize. If that
doesn't help anything, it might be best to just learn to ignore it or tune it out, it is really awkward but probably not worth causing a huge fight over.
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Posts: 27452 (03/30/2009 8:50 AM) |
No. Are they not good at keeping it down, or are the walls just thin?
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Posts: 1106 (03/30/2009 9:08 AM) |
I personally wouldn't care if I could hear my roommate having sex (although now that my roommate is my boyfriend, if I could only HEAR him having sex that
might make me mad!HAHA) but it's your personal preference. And it's your home too, you're not telling her to NOT have sex, just to keep it down.
Mutual respect.
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Posts: 86 (03/30/2009 9:50 AM) |
Have sex too, but do it louder. A la Forgetting Sarah Marshall.
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Posts: 12660 (03/30/2009 9:51 AM) |
Are they keeping you up at night?
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Posts: 649 (03/30/2009 9:53 AM) |
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I feel like girls are always really uptight about this sort of thing. With guys it's like no big deal but girls always get really bothered by it for some
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