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grayspeckledgoose		#21	[-]
Posts: 14438 (03/28/2009 2:35 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Maybe the brother has some hot friend that your boyfriend is into, and he didn't want you going with him because he had an ulterior motive. Sorry... just the pessimist in me coming out. (and I actually don't think that's the reason he didn't invite you. If I were you, I'd ask him point blank why you were not invited to go, and see what he says.)
EJFiederer		#22	[-]
Posts: 12495 (03/28/2009 2:39 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Sweetie1384 wrote: Driedflowers wrote: thetruthmaker wrote: maybe his brother doesn't like you? I've considered that, but that doesn't make sense. I've only met him two times and I was friendly both times. If he doesn't like me it must be based on something my BF has told him which would piss me off more. lol You only met him 2 times in 6 months? That's probably the reason why you weren't invited. He probably doesn't even know you that well and maybe he just wanted his close friends and family there? Seriously!! It is his brothers reception. Not his!! His brothers guest list. Not his! Just because it is casual as far as you know doesn't mean that the guest list isn't set or it isn't an expensive affair. You can't compare Christmas and Thanksgiving to a catered or invitation reception. It's just not the same. I'm sorry I just can't agree with you being so upset about that aspect of it! You have had extremely limited contact with his brother. You are nothing to him and he is not obligated to include you.
NiteSky83		#23	[-]
Posts: 6955 (03/28/2009 2:41 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	What do you mean by reception? Reception for what? I'm confused You're dumb.
xxGirlxxFixerxx		#24	[-]
Posts: 1667 (03/28/2009 2:41 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Well that makes sense then, only having met the brother twice. Obviously you aren't close so I wouldn't expect an invite, nor would I be peeved.
Kippage		#25	[-]
Posts: 4628 (03/28/2009 2:43 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Just because you're dating someone doesn't mean you should be invited to all of their family events. Especially six months into a relationship. Sit back and chill. Hell, at six months my family wouldn't even know I was seeing anyone, forget meeting them.
McCaining Around		#26	[-]
Posts: 23 (03/28/2009 2:43 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	NiteSky83 wrote: What do you mean by reception? Reception for what? I'm confused You're dumb.
Driedflowers		#27	[-]
Posts: 442 (03/28/2009 2:44 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	EJFiederer wrote: Sweetie1384 wrote: Driedflowers wrote: thetruthmaker wrote: maybe his brother doesn't like you? I've considered that, but that doesn't make sense. I've only met him two times and I was friendly both times. If he doesn't like me it must be based on something my BF has told him which would piss me off more. lol You only met him 2 times in 6 months? That's probably the reason why you weren't invited. He probably doesn't even know you that well and maybe he just wanted his close friends and family there? Seriously!! It is his brothers reception. Not his!! His brothers guest list. Not his! Just because it is casual as far as you know doesn't mean that the guest list isn't set or it isn't an expensive affair. You can't compare Christmas and Thanksgiving to a catered or invitation reception. It's just not the same. I'm sorry I just can't agree with you being so upset about that aspect of it! You have had extremely limited contact with his brother. You are nothing to him and he is not obligated to include you. Maybe it's just my past experience with weddings. You almost always get an invitation for yourself and a date if you wish to bring one. I was invited to bring a date to my cousins wedding and plenty of my friends weddings...it didn't matter who I brought or if the groom or bride had any relationship with that person. I thought that was a common thing for weddings and receptions. Maybe I'm wrong.
Triple X Tera		#28	[-]
Posts: 31695 (03/28/2009 2:45 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	NickelodeonSucksLoL wrote: Driedflowers wrote: Triple X Tera wrote: This reception could have been planned before he met you and maybe they had a tight budget and didn't want to spend money on an extra person coming, no matter who it was. Try and get the full story out of him before reacting. His brother just eloped last month. This reception is just a casual thing to "celebrate" their marriage. I don't mean to instigate this any further (although that's exactly what's gonna happen with this reply ), but this just reminds me of something one of my BFFs (she's a New Yorker by the way) always says: "Yo son! You just got clowned mad hard!" I got clowned? lol I wouldn't say I did considering she never stated it was a reception after he eloped. Let us know what he says after you ask him why you weren't invited.
xxGirlxxFixerxx		#29	[-]
Posts: 1668 (03/28/2009 2:46 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Do you know if he even had a +1 invite? Like someone said, maybe it was a budget thing or maybe it was just a small event for close family and friends.
McCaining Around		#30	[-]
Posts: 25 (03/28/2009 2:47 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Obviously this is bothering you. So I think you need to just ask him. If you don't like the answer he gives you, then maybe you shouldn't be with him. And it's better you find that out now, 6 months into it, then say.. 2 years from now, isn't it?
EJFiederer		#31	[-]
Posts: 12496 (03/28/2009 2:47 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	But you said that they are already married. This is just a reception after the fact to celebrate that, most likely with their closest family and friends. If they had a big wedding maybe things would be different but this is what they chose to do and I don't see how you can hold that against your boyfriend.
Heathus Christ		#32	[-]
Posts: 422 (03/28/2009 2:48 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Why is she dumb? I don't understand what kind of reception it is, either.
NickelodeonSucksLoL		#33	[-]
Posts: 2956 (03/28/2009 2:48 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Driedflowers wrote: EJFiederer wrote: Sweetie1384 wrote: Driedflowers wrote: thetruthmaker wrote: maybe his brother doesn't like you? I've considered that, but that doesn't make sense. I've only met him two times and I was friendly both times. If he doesn't like me it must be based on something my BF has told him which would piss me off more. lol You only met him 2 times in 6 months? That's probably the reason why you weren't invited. He probably doesn't even know you that well and maybe he just wanted his close friends and family there? Seriously!! It is his brothers reception. Not his!! His brothers guest list. Not his! Just because it is casual as far as you know doesn't mean that the guest list isn't set or it isn't an expensive affair. You can't compare Christmas and Thanksgiving to a catered or invitation reception. It's just not the same. I'm sorry I just can't agree with you being so upset about that aspect of it! You have had extremely limited contact with his brother. You are nothing to him and he is not obligated to include you. Maybe it's just my past experience with weddings. You almost always get an invitation for yourself and a date if you wish to bring one. I was invited to bring a date to my cousins wedding and plenty of my friends weddings...it didn't matter who I brought or if the groom or bride had any relationship with that person. I thought that was a common thing for weddings and receptions. Maybe I'm wrong. You're not. That's proper wedding ceremony/ reception etiquette.
NickelodeonSucksLoL		#34	[-]
Posts: 2957 (03/28/2009 2:50 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Triple X Tera wrote: NickelodeonSucksLoL wrote: Driedflowers wrote: Triple X Tera wrote: This reception could have been planned before he met you and maybe they had a tight budget and didn't want to spend money on an extra person coming, no matter who it was. Try and get the full story out of him before reacting. His brother just eloped last month. This reception is just a casual thing to "celebrate" their marriage. I don't mean to instigate this any further (although that's exactly what's gonna happen with this reply ), but this just reminds me of something one of my BFFs (she's a New Yorker by the way) always says: "Yo son! You just got clowned mad hard!" I got clowned? lol I wouldn't say I did considering she never stated it was a reception after he eloped. Let us know what he says after you ask him why you weren't invited. I was talking to the OP and not at all to you. That's why I bolded her reply, but not yours. I was saying that my friend would've said that to her.
Driedflowers		#35	[-]
Posts: 443 (03/28/2009 2:55 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	NickelodeonSucksLoL wrote: Driedflowers wrote: EJFiederer wrote: Sweetie1384 wrote: Driedflowers wrote: thetruthmaker wrote: maybe his brother doesn't like you? I've considered that, but that doesn't make sense. I've only met him two times and I was friendly both times. If he doesn't like me it must be based on something my BF has told him which would piss me off more. lol You only met him 2 times in 6 months? That's probably the reason why you weren't invited. He probably doesn't even know you that well and maybe he just wanted his close friends and family there? Seriously!! It is his brothers reception. Not his!! His brothers guest list. Not his! Just because it is casual as far as you know doesn't mean that the guest list isn't set or it isn't an expensive affair. You can't compare Christmas and Thanksgiving to a catered or invitation reception. It's just not the same. I'm sorry I just can't agree with you being so upset about that aspect of it! You have had extremely limited contact with his brother. You are nothing to him and he is not obligated to include you. Maybe it's just my past experience with weddings. You almost always get an invitation for yourself and a date if you wish to bring one. I was invited to bring a date to my cousins wedding and plenty of my friends weddings...it didn't matter who I brought or if the groom or bride had any relationship with that person. I thought that was a common thing for weddings and receptions. Maybe I'm wrong. You're not. That's proper wedding ceremony/ reception etiquette. Thank you for saying that. I felt like maybe I was crazy. Clearly I don't have a relationship with my BF's brother, but I was basing my lack of invitation of my previous wedding experiences. lol. This could be totally different, maybe his brother didn't give him an option. I just need to get the balls to ask him what's up.
lonely33		#36	[-]
Posts: 2162 (03/28/2009 3:05 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Dating six months isn't a long enough time to be hanging around the family like that, IMO.
Suzy321		#37	[-]
Posts: 4726 (03/28/2009 3:06 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Just because it's a "casual" reception doesn't mean money isn't tight and/or that it's not just close friends and family. Yes, you've been dating the guy for 6 months, but the reception is for the brother. It's possible he just wanted the time to hang out with family and celebrate his brother's wedding... and not worry about keeping you amused.
babylulu		#38	[-]
Posts: 24680 (03/28/2009 3:15 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Maybe it was just a small get together with family and you're not family...
JCfanaddict		#39	[-]
Posts: 4910 (03/28/2009 3:15 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	lonely33 wrote: Dating six months isn't a long enough time to be hanging around the family like that, IMO. Really? I've been dating my boyfriend 6 months, and if either of us was invited to a family wedding reception, I can guarantee we'd each ask the other to attend. I didn't realize there was a set timeline to relationships.
PudgieBelly		#40	[-]
Posts: 1099 (03/28/2009 3:25 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	How are you going to be pissed off that you aren't invited to a reception of someone you've met twice? You have to understand it's his brother's reception and he is in charge of inviting people, and perhaps since he eloped he really only wanted people he cared about there, like his close family and friends. I wouldn't get upset about it.

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