we've become part of each other's routine.. so yeah. we're usually together but if he's at his house and doesn't call or text me when he
gets off, I wonder and vice versa. we always call each other on our breaks, too. in the last year and 4 months I think there's only been a couple days (in
the beginning) that we didn't talk at all in a day.
Do you need to talk to your boyfriend every day?
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Posts: 1569 (03/17/2009 11:48 AM) |
I don't "need" to, but I prefer to. Usually we talk atleast once a day, text a few times -- however if we don't, I do feel a little off just
because it's part of our normal routine.
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Posts: 34589 (03/17/2009 12:11 PM) |
this is a call wrote: No, I would just pick up the phone and call him myself if I wanted to, or text. It's perfectly okay if you need/want a break, to me it seems weird not talking to your boyfriend. He's a huge part of my life, why wouldn't I talk to him? |
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Posts: 1321 (03/17/2009 12:19 PM) |
imCATastrophic wrote:This |
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Posts: 498 (03/17/2009 12:19 PM) |
CandaceLeigh wrote: Same here. He usually calls me everyday, but I hadn't heard from him so I called him and STILL haven't heard from him!  I don't think anything is wrong with it though, he's working today so
he'll call when he gets a minute. Plus, it's St. Patty's Day....beautiful and warm..... I'm about to get my drink on outside and take advantage
of this weather! 
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Posts: 62234 (03/17/2009 12:22 PM) JJBer of the Year |
Yes, and I would get annoyed if I didn't hear from him until the end of the day. I know you have five seconds to send a text.
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this is a call |
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Posts: 8644 (03/17/2009 12:23 PM) |
angelittrell wrote:Oh okay. Like I said, we are different people. I need space. That is how I am. If I am around him, or anyone for that matter like 24/7, I will go crazy. But those are my issues. And I don't like to be smothered, and it seems like 95% of guys are smothering and needy! I hate it. I don't think it's weird to not talk to him maybe one day. It's not like I'm going all week without talking to him. Also like I said, I DO talk to him everyday. Because he calls me. 
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Posts: 7357 (03/17/2009 12:23 PM) |
I could get through my dad without talking to him. But we usually at least call once a day to check in. Most days it's a lot more than that.
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Posts: 15978 (03/17/2009 12:24 PM) |
Yes. I mean, I won't die if I don't, but I expect to. If he didn't want to talk to me everyday I would be a little concerned. The only time we
didn't talk every day for the past 9 years was when we were on seperate Spring Breaks and it was way expensive. But we still texted a little.
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JJB Is The New Google |
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Posts: 157 (03/17/2009 12:33 PM) |
No, I don't have to talk to him every day. But we generally do, he'll get bored on his lunch and call me. Then he usually comes to visit me for a
little bit after work just to hang out and talk about how our day went. I am in Nursing School, so I don't have much free time, and between that and work,
we only really have Tuesday afternoon to spend together
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Zuul not Dana |
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Posts: 144 (03/17/2009 12:34 PM) |
I expect to, yes. And if we end up having no contact at all, usually there's a reason that I'll already know about.
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Posts: 2326 (03/17/2009 12:35 PM) |
We're long distance, so yeah, talking is pretty necessary.
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Posts: 1801 (03/17/2009 12:37 PM) |
I did when I had one. If not see him everyday, then I definitely talked to him on the phone.
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Posts: 19371 (03/17/2009 12:39 PM) |
Not anymore. I used to though and it was more about easing my anxiety.
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toozb |
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Posts: 7281 (03/17/2009 12:55 PM) |
We just do...but we don't need to. Sometimes he'll just call before bed to say goodnight if he's had a long day at work.
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Posts: 9359 (03/17/2009 12:58 PM) |
I talk to mine everyday, when we first started we only saw eachother on weekends, so talking was all we had during the week.
Now we basically live together, so we see eachother everyday and talk everyday. |
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Posts: 21363 (03/17/2009 1:00 PM) |
JaneTimberlake wrote:IKR? |
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Posts: 11608 (03/17/2009 1:34 PM) |
God no!
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Posts: 7813 (03/17/2009 2:01 PM) |
imCATastrophic wrote: Okay thats me excatlly. It felt weird yesterday cause we normally have some form of communication at least once a day. |
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Posts: 293 (03/17/2009 2:11 PM) |
I talk to my BF everyday, but we don't see each other everyday. He usually emails me from work at least once, and at least sends a good night text. If we
don't see each other we try to ichat before bed, but if one of us is busy it's no big deal. I'm not totally dependent on him, but it would be weird
to just not hear from him for a whole day. If I knew ahead of time he was busy then it would be fine.
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